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writes:My first love of 10 months.. finished with me a few months ago because of 'arguments'.. he seemed totally in love with me and I certainly was with him. He broke up with me and told me never to contact him again.. he said it was because of arguing.. when I've tried calling him since, even going to his work he just hangs up and tels me to go away! I have been totally and utterly mortified!!!!Today after 2 months of not speaking to him.. I really felt like sending him a kinky picture message just to get a reaction. is this a bad idea? I'm not over him... I just dont understand how someone who is pend everyday and night with practially can just block me out like this?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2007): I can understand why you want to contact him,you really love this guy and you are missing him. I do know how you feel.Maybe you should try sending this to him, it seems like he's not interested in this relationship anymore, but I would say just try sending the mail, what have you to loose. But please, don't expect him to just love you when he gets the mail. He may or may not respond. Tell him that you miss him and that he should not just shut you out like that. After all, you two have been so close and at least he could help you get use to the idea that you are not a couple anymore. I hope that he comes to his senses and just help you through this, if he does not want a relationship.Please be strong, pray and keep yourself busy.Good luck.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (8 April 2007):
 Is sending your ex-boyfriend who isn't interested in contact with you a kinky picture of yourself a bad idea? Well, yeah.
I can understand why you'd want to do such a thing. You miss him, you love him and you want to rile his feathers. I've been there, girl, I really have. But these things usually backfire and he won't see you as "the ex-girlfriend who is so hot i should've never dumped her"... it will more likely bite you in the butt and he will see you as a little more of "the crazy ex-girlfriend who won't leave me alone".
Trust me.
Why do you want this guy anyhow? I realize that what you had was good, but it doesn't sound like he's very mature about the whole thing. Sadly, he won't come back unless he gets the proper space and time to grow up, mature and realize what a catch you are.
It's just not a good idea, sweetness. Write him hatemail (but don't send it)... or take a hot picture of yourself and hang it up in your room just so you can look at it and say, "I am a catch, and I don't need (____). Any guy is lucky to have me."
You'll be okay. Stay strong!
xxIndia
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