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anonymous
writes:how do you stop yourself from ejaculating to quick?I used to be able to last longer!! but now seem to be to quick, is it because im enjoying myself to much? i wnt my gf to enjoy it aswell its not fair.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008): stop thinking about the excitement,concentrate on the fun.It will help you last longer.
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reader, fluffer +, writes (8 April 2007):
Wow are'nt you nice.! most men dont give a stuff if the woman cumms or not. Keep up the good work.
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (7 April 2007):
 It is difficult to define what is premature. If a man takes eight minutes to ejaculate and his partner only takes two minutes then you could not really call it premature on the part of the male. However, if a man takes fifteen minutes to ejaculate and his partner takes twenty minutes this could be called premature on the part of the male.
What I hear you saying is that you want to prolong the good sensations a bit longer.
In this case there are topical ointments that you can buy. One name brand I can think of off the top of my head is called "Prolong". These ointments contain benzocain which is a numbing agent. What is interesting about it is that though it reduces surface sensation it does little else to stop the build up to climax. This, however is enough to prolong the amount of time it takes to get to climax and gives you more control if you do truly have a problem with premature ejaculation.
The real meaning of "Premature Ejaculation" in most cases refers to a condition where little more than a few seconds of contact sends a man over the edge. Hope this helps. Doc.
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female
reader, ingotblue +, writes (7 April 2007):
 I think that the item that sam was taliking about is called a cock ring!
Alternatively you know when you tense your muscles and it makes your cock jump?
If you strengthen these muscles you can achive what it known as a male multiple orgasm, or what is known as a dry orgasm were by you can stay hard even after cumming.
start off by making your cock "jump" with a dry flannel on it when you get to the point where its easy to do it like that wet the flannel down and do it that way. you will eventually be able to move on to a hand towel, these muscles are much the same as the pelvic floor muscles in a female, by strengthening them you are enabling yourself to have more control.
Good luck in your excersizing :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2007): masterbate more that always helps
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female
reader, sam12344321 +, writes (7 April 2007):
 hi, if you go to a sex shop they have this round thing you can put around your balls, it really helps! another thing you can do is go on www.google.com and search for it, im sure you will get lots of answers good luck
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