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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I hope you can help me. About two weeks ago, my boyfriend and I had a very serious talk about what we want the relationship to go. He wanted to work things out and would do whatever it takes. For the first time, he opened up to me a lot and I felt this is the beginning where we can get through our tough times. He has been struggling in the employment field and has no income to pay his bills. That is the biggest problem he is dealing with right now. The next day I snapped at him because I wanted to ask him a couple of questions. He said he was about to eat and would call me back, but I snapped at him and said forget it. I was not sure who hung up on who, but now I have not heard from him since. I have tried to call him the first week to apologize what I did, but nothing at all. The second week I stopped calling because it seems like he needed the space. I really don't want to lose him, but at the same time I don't know what is going through his head. I don't know if he is saying it's over with us or what. I feel very lost and confused, but my heart is telling me to hang in there. Also, I feel the reason why he is pulling back its because at the moment he couldn't provide anything for me because of the no job thing and I believe it's very hard for a guy to lose something (I believe) is the most important thing in his life. I'm sure he's isolated himself from everyone right now. Sigh. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2007): hunni, i think its over! and he sounds like he aint bothering to tell u so ignoring is easier for guys! sorry! but im sure you'll find a lovely guy soon!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2007): seems he`s saying its over between you,he is ignoring you as its easier than to tell you,just move on with your life just as he is,shows how much he cares,not enough to be honest with you
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