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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend since 1998. We were separated for 9 months and had other worthless relationships. We got back together almost a year ago. We have a 4 1/2 yr old child and another one on the way. I have noticed in his actions that he is not the same. After talking to him, he states that he loves me, he cares for me but he is not in love with me. He promises that he has no one else and is not interested in separating. He wants to continue to live in our home together and work on things...he said that I need to leave the issue alone and he will come around. He states that he has faith in us and our future. Again, I know he is not cheating and has no one else and I love him truly, madly deeply...what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2007): try and remember what it was that made the two of u that made u fall head over heals with each other and try to rekindle that, as memories are important, listen to each other as u have both grown over time, it maybe that u both need to descover the new u's!now most of all, cherish the friends ship uve got and the new lives ur bringing in to the world! and if u cant rekindle the relationship then grab ur friendship with him and keep it!good luck!
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