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writes: my b/f and i dont have sex like we used to..we see each other 2-3 days..i remember last year a lot of times we would have sex 2 times in one night..lately its like once or twice a week..he doesnt seem as interested in it. Like we used to have it at night and it would be kind of long..now i noticed sometimes its in the morning and when its in the morning obviously its just kind of a quickie..the thing is, i think he is just mostly tired...to drive me home he has to wake up earlier than usual b/c i dont drive and at night he is falling asleep by like 10:30, 11pm...i really don't think he is cheating..i think maybe he does not care as much and is just tired. I kind of take it personal that he isnt all over me...one night we were laying down and i was even starting to put my hand on his you know what of his pants to turn him on..i felt he was getting you know what but he still didnt take like any initative to have sex and fell asleep even. I really DONT want to tell him oh i think we should be having more sex..i just dont think i will ever tell a guy that unless it came down to us not doing it at all
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reader, cherri sparkle  +, writes (7 April 2007):
well if your not really happy with the amount of sex why dont you try to iniciate things? its always great at the start of a relationship when you have that honeymoon period sex is always great and as that period cools you tend to settle into s nstural routine. if you say you were waiting for him to start the proceedings i guess he probably thinks you are happy with the sex when you get it show some initative and take the lead it will be more exciting for both of you instead of the usual
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