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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: I asked him why he split up with me after 10 months of being besotted with me... he said its because suddenly he feels as tho he loves me.. but hes not IN LOVE with me?? what the hell does he mean, how does this happen?!?!?
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (8 April 2007):
 Hi Hun,
Typical male, as soon as they feel emotions it scares them he is falling in love with you and doesn't know how to handle it so he has backed off, don't worry leave him give him time to work out what he wants....
This is hard for us women as we live with our hearts on our sleeves, dont pester him, he will contact you if he love you I promise but in the mean time you carry on with your life just like you did before you ever met him, he will see this and will not understand why your not calling him every 5 minutes he will see your having fun going out with your friends and boy will he be on your case,
Good luck hun,
Give him time if he really really loves you he will let you know
Donna
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2007): Hi, seems like he cares about you but just not in love with you. He is being honest,you can love someone but not be inlove with them. It's like this, you can care about what happens to a person, but you may not just have that exciting, spark of love. Being inlove, is like the butterfly feeling in your stomach when you see the one that you are inlove with, you feel it in every cell in your body, that mushy feeling, just the excitment, the attraction, the sexuality, the whole 9 yards. I feel bad for you, I am not trying to be harsh, but just trying to explain the difference. Hope you do understand. I am sorry that he said this to you, but you are young, and can find someone else who would be inlove with you. Good luck my dear.
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