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writes:I've never been one to watch porn, but I must admit that it does make me interested and a bit a annoyed when they don't show the full front of the guy on tv.I've always been having issues with my sexuality, but even with porn I'm more attracted to the males than the females. I watch it and get turned on and watch everything but the guys is what I watch more, it not a matter of comparison.Does that make it an obvious sign that I am gay?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2007): You may be gay - but many boys who look at gay porn at ages below 16 are not gay
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2007): Maybe subconsciously it's like you are looking for tips, or a bit of jelousy or something. It doesn't make you gay, because I can find women attractive but it doesn't mean that I am a lesbian. I just find them attractive because I know that it is a way that I would love to look xxx
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (7 April 2007):
 Hey sweetness,
Is it a sign that you're gay? I don't really think it's a solid sign. Lot's of straight girls like watching lesbian porn or naked girls, and I'm sure it works both ways. I'm sure lots of guys get curous and kind of turned on by men in porn. So this new found attraction to men does not necessarily mean you're gay. "Anonymous" had a great point, maybe watching men in porn is like watching yourself?
However, there's not a lot of informatioin about your past relationships... beyond adult movies are you still looking at men in a sexual way? Maybe you're bisexual (which is awesome... best of both worlds! No longer are you just checking out 50% of the population, but the full 100%!).
Do you find girls attractive as well? Do you also enjoy naked women? If you don't really get excited by women then maybe you are gay. If you are gay, it's absolutely fine and you'll still be yourself and live a normal life and be happy.
Good luck, sweetness. I assure you, you ARE normal. You just have some things to think about is all.
xxIndia
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reader, ingotblue +, writes (7 April 2007):
 personally speaking I am a female that enjoys gay porn but i have come to realise that it is because that gay porn is more "loving" and considerate, with it being two men it is more equal than when it is with a man and a woman.
It might be that you are bi curious it has always been said that women know what women want and men know what men want. So you might be wondering what it would be like to be wanked by some one that knows instinctively what you like rather than haveing to guide them or feeling so uncomfortable that you endure the paltry offerings you are subjected to.
Try it out and see how it feels, if you dont like it do it one more time just to make sure lol happy hunting :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2007): You might be or you might be bi-sexual. But it might possibly not even be that. The issue might be that you are thinking about your own sex life and like watching the men as it reminds you of what you would want to be like. I don't know. What i do know however is that you don't know whether or not you might be gay unless you start having feelings for another guy.
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