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I can't shed the memories of knowing what she did with my friend. any advice?

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Question - (7 April 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 April 2007)
A male United States age 41-50, *r music40 writes:

Almost a year ago, I went on a trip with some friends of a friend. He is one that I've known for many years. During the trip I coupled with a girl and we had sex. During the trip my friend also said that his girlfriend involved another girl in their having sex while everyone was drinking. He did not have sex with her but his girlfriend did. Once home from the trip I started to hang out with this group. The person whom I had originally linked up with; we found that we were incompatible. I got involved with another person who had been invited to be with my friend and his girlfriend. Only after my friend found out, he disclosed that she briefly performed felacio on him while she was in the room with them, drunk and while his girlfriend was not looking. She initially told me about the incident but left that out. When I asked her about the felacio, she shut down and adamently denied remembering. I am still seeing this girl because everyone told me there was no guarantee it would work out. Unfortunately, Its really working out and I really like her but I cant shed what she did in my mind during our intimate moments even though it was before me. Please help me with some advice.

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A female reader, adina Romania +, writes (7 April 2007):

you don't have to care about what she did in the past. the present is important and you should focuse on what she is feeling about you

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