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writes:pls.help, i need to know whats really going on with my gf. we've been dating for about 4yrs and lately she been acting unusal, for example she just cut her hair very short and added a dye, and during sex, which has decreased dramatically, she tries to insert a finger or two. i asked if my penis size was not satisfing, and of course, she says it's not that but if not then what, pleass respond.
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reader, beautifulllove +, writes (29 April 2007):
 well i think she just wanted change maybe try some for your self like do something with her you always said you wouldnt do be a little romantic but kinky try buying her a toy for the bedroom maybe a vibrator she might just be her old self with a little spice now you never know, but i say make her feel like she did when you were frist together take her out and surprize her keep her on her toes and see what you get out of that lol good luck xoxo
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reader, rammsteinfan +, writes (29 April 2007):
 I think that your gf's "unusual" action may not be so unusual at all! I think that she is trying to add "spice" to her life and love-life. I went through the same thing...with my hair. I just got tired of the same color as i was trying to grow it long. I decided to bleach my whole head and died it purple!! I did that for a change and to be daring. It actually lifted my spirits! It was actually beautiful. (many people make good compliments on it) After purple...I changed it to blue. It was a fun thing to do.
And to what she is trying in the bedroom, I think she is probably trying to spice up the sex life a little. That is what it sounds like to me. Sometimes the same positions all the time tend to get a little mundane. Adding different positions, ect is very exciting, especially since you've been together for 4 years. It keeps the love life exciting and new!
Good Luck to you two!!!
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reader, rammsteinfan +, writes (29 April 2007):
I think that your gf's "unusual" action may not be so unusual at all! I think that she is trying to add "spice" to her life and love-life. I went through the same thing...with my hair. I just got tired of the same color as i was trying to grow it long. I decided to bleach my whole head and died it purple!! I did that for a change and to be daring. It actually lifted my spirits! It was actually beautiful. (many people make good compliments on it) After purple...I changed it to blue. It was a fun thing to do.
And to what she is trying in the bedroom, I think she is probably trying to spice up the sex life a little. That is what it sounds like to me. Sometimes the same positions all the time tend to get a little mundane. Adding different positions, ect is very exciting, especially since you've been together for 4 years. It keeps the love life exciting and new!
Good Luck to you two!!!
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reader, maverick  +, writes (29 April 2007):
 This seems like a very long stable relationship. I know you said dating - but dating is different than a relationship. There could be any number of things thats brought on this change. But given you've posted a question that your girlfriend of 4 years has suddenly changed it seems like she's bored and is just trying to break out. Since she's started using her fingers during sex too - I'm guess that's not NORMAL then? So you've defined a normal for relationship? Not good.How do you treat her on a day to day basis? So what do you do to surprise her over last couple of weeks? When was the last time YOU did something unusual for her? What last three DIFFERENT things did you try in bed with her?The good news is that this doesn't seem like a problem related to your penis. The bad news is that you may have to put some effort in to your relationship.You need to be a bit random in your approach. Plan a good night out to a restaraunt one night. Plan it it for her and take her. Take her kite flying. Skating. The zoo. The Theatre. Do stuff she likes (and at some point stuff you like). Buy her roses and then after two weeks when they are dead (3 days if you are like me) book a day off work, clean the house, cook dinner, make a hot bath, put scented candles round the house then put the rose petals in the bath! Just make sure you make her feel special every now and again.Don't over do it though. Leave like one week gap then 4 days. Then 2 weeks for the next one. The 5 days for the next surprise... you get the idea. (Surprise doesn't mean gift!)PS - Buy a copy of the Kama Surta. Good luck mate.
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