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writes: I made the mistake of thinking my girlfriend was doing a few things as a cruel mindgame on me, only to find out later that it was a few series of consecutive mistakes. Problem is, I had already yelled at her thinking I was in the right, which resulted in her leaving me. A few minutes later, she called my landline to talk about what had happened, and to make an attempt to patch things up. She was still outside my house, sitting in her car, so I got up to head out and see her, apologize and make up to her. But, on the way out, I fainted, due to a severe lack of sleep/rest. She was on the phone when it happened, so she ran into the house and woke me up, but...I can't help but think if she didn't call me, would we have gotten back together? I've got a bad habit of not realizing and standing up for my mistakes, or when I do it's already too late, so she's always the one coming back. As much as I don't want it to, I know all relationships have troubles, so I want to be the one to come back first, to call back and hold us together. It's not fair to her to put that burden on her, and I love her too much to hurt her like that. What can I do to help me overcome my pride? Please help, this would mean the world to her if I overcame this. I know I'm prideful, but I'm far from selfish, and I never want to see her hurt so badly again. Reply to this Question
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reader, Girl Pants  +, writes (28 April 2007):
 Hi there.
From what you wrote, i can tell she really love and care for you. See how she ran to your house when you fainted. She really care for you dude. And i can tell she's a really understanding lady.
Human makes mistakes. Whether you're wrong or right, saying sorry is important. You know, what i hate most is when a person is being accused wrongly. It's sad. So whatever you may find out about your girlfriend, true or not, you have to think over it carefully before confronting her. Do not get angry. It hurts, getting yelled at or accused wrongly by someone you so in love with. It's okay to realise your mistakes and it's not about giving in; it's about making the first step to save a beautiful relationship.
You said you don't wanna hurt her. So try to give your best in this relationship. Be commited to it, and not control over her. Tell yourself she's everything. Spend time with her too.
Hope this helps! You can send me mails if you have more questions or updates.
Good Luck!
And yea, get some rest!:)
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