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writes:Hi, I Need Help.Im 13 And Have A Boyfriend The Same Age.I Dont Know Whether it is Just My Age Or Not But I AM Scared In case I Want To Have Sex. If That Makes Any Sense. Please Help Me Im Confused. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2007): hi i'm a lil younger and dont EXACTLY feel that way but i know what u mean dont say anything 2 ur man cause he might feel unsecure and break-up with u and mabe he wont feel the same way sex isnt everything wait 4 the right guy....ur notrede wait til ur a lil older and well known HOW 2 do it and have the right body parts fully developed FIRST!! well hope u like my advice
LoVe, RoO-rOo
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reader, beautifulllove  +, writes (29 April 2007):
 i agree with you ! you are not ready just take things slow and look life as you being older will come fast enough enjoy being young
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHiya,Thank-You You Have Made Me Feel Alot Better. I Know Im Not Ready. You Helped Me Figure That Out.=]
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reader, heartxbrokenxgurl +, writes (28 April 2007):
 heyy i was in this same problem me and my b.f well i broke up with him but me and him were dating for a long time and i really liked him and me and him talked about sex and i was scared because i mean when you are a teenager and have a b.f mostly on your mind is "is it time for sex now" but dont worry it goes away in a week or so soon you might find out your really not ready and you might still feel scared if your alone with him but dont be every one at least once feels scared to have sex at this age and feels they might have sex and its not just your age its really how you feel if you really like your b.f you will feel in love with him and wanna have sex but if you have a b.f and dont feel like you wanna have sex then maybe you dont like him that much to have a long term relationship wit him if i was you id take it slowly so breathe and calm down its just how you really feel about the guy you are dating trust me you will be alright
love jenna *good luck ?*
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reader, maverick +, writes (28 April 2007):
 Its ok. I think there are a few ways to read your question so I will try to answer it as best I can. Sorry if some of this sounds like another school education book.
I'm guessing that you are either worried about wanting to have sex at 13 or worried about having sex while being 13?
First of all wanting to have sex at 13... Going through puberty/adolescense your body will change and you will notice guys more. You will also start to have periods and notice other changes in your body - such as your breats will develop. The want for sex is different from person to person. Some people become sexually aware younger than other people. I think I became sexually aware when I was 13 too.
Having sex at 13 or for the first time... If you decided to have sex then there are things to consider. If you have periods then then there is risk you could become pregnant if a condom is not used. Even if a condom is used there is always a very small chance it could rip. Also the first time you have sex usually will hurt a bit. Sorry those are the main bits that come to mind.
It's scary I know, and I think you should not have sex if you are scared over it. Instead maybe you could take more time to find out about what it involves and wait until you are happy with it. If you need to talk about it you can always chat to Childline 0800 1111. They are helpful and I used to talk to them when I was younger and the calls are free.
Please let us know if you have anymore questions. Message if you feel like you would like to.
Please take care, M
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