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writes:I have recently been introduced to my Brother's drinking mate, he is 27 and gorgeous. I really like him but I don't have the confidence to tell him how I feel. We get on really well and we always flirt and he always gives me a kiss on the cheek when we say goodbye but I am scared that he is just being friendly and I am reading too much into things.What should I do?Shy and Confused
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2007): You'll get anything if you don't say anything so just go for it. The only thing he can do is say that he doesn't feel anything more than just mates. But if he does feel the same way then this could turn into a blossoming romance. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2007): Get your confidence back because I think you may need to make a rational decision with this guy. He sound fun, flirty, bold which means...he's assertive. Keep a cool head here, hun-stay calm. If he's flirting and kissing you on the cheek...it's plain that he likes you but maybe not in the way you are percieving. Some guys are flirts, because it feeds the ego. You have to distinquish that because right now, as it sits...he's not calling you or making any first moves to ask you out. Why is that? Is he this way with just you, or does he do this with all the ladies? Sit back for a bit and really, really observe him, without the rose colored glasses on. One thing, I do know, is that when a man wants to date a woman, he asks her out-nothing usually gets in his way. And if this guy is bold enough to flirt with you..he's bold enough to ask you out. Wait for him to ask you out. That will tell you what's going on in his head.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (28 April 2007):
 The way I see it you can spend your whole life wondering whether he likes you as more than a friend or you can ask him. The second way is less trouble!
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