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writes: Hi! Well I have BIG problem. I think I might be losing my boy friend! well the other day my girl best friend told me that every1 is saying that me nd my boy best m8 BADLY fancy each other.Of course my boyfriend found out about this.Though I do have a major crush on my boy best m8 nd I thing he has a crush on me but neither of us no it 4 sure!!!My BF is scared that I'm gonna dump him 4 my best m8 but I'm not cus I luv my bf very much.Now my bf is being really off and cross wiv me he hasn't dumped me nd I haven't dumped him, he's just cross!Wat should I do, should I dump him or leave it nd let him realise that me nd my m8 are just good friends nothing more and nothing less.Sum1 help!!!
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reader, llusting4him  +, writes (30 April 2007):
i think ur mates and bf are seeing what u and ur best boy mate are trying to denie an attraction to each other you've admitted you like you best boy mate but say you love your bf how can this be when you clearly fancy ur best boy mate i think ur boyfriend is able to see this but doesnt want to loose you so hes not talking to you about it thus leading him to b snappy & cranky wit u you need to decide wat you really want i think ur holding on to ur bf cos u dnt no how ur best boy mate feels talk to them both b4 you loose ur bf & ur best boy mate gud luck
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (28 April 2007):
 One thing that you should do is re-assure your bf that you love only him and not your best mate!! And tell your bf that there are some people who try to cause trouble for others, by spreading rumors and such!! Also keep at his side alot more than you have been....this might help!
Good luck!!!
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reader, Girl Pants  +, writes (28 April 2007):
 Of course you should not dump him. Okay, you love your boyfriend and so not into your best mate right? And if you dump your boyfriend, you'll lose the person you love and possibly, lose your best mate too. I have a best boy mate and have been friends for 14 years now. I do receive some nasty gossips about me liking him and vice versa. It sucks really. But all you need to do is control your temper and sort it all out. both with your best mate and boyfriend.
In reality, gossips are plenty. It's a weapon that could destroy friendship or relationship.
So just have a nice talk with your boyfriend. And i mean NICE talk. Make sure both of you are in a good mood and no one is around. Tell him that trust is important.
You have a talk with your best mate too. Tell him that you really love your boyfriend loads.
Hope everything works out well.
Good Luck!
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