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writes: hi im 15 and i have never had a boyfriend cos im just waiting for the right person... but there is no-one at school that i like, they just aren't for me!i really want to find "the one" soon :( but they just dont seem to be in my school!i'm leaving school soon to go to college, do u think i will meet someone there? it just feels like i will never meet him. i dream of the perfect boy for me and just want to find him :(do u think he could be at my college? and what if he doesnt like me!?! are there more boys out there or are they just like the ones at my school? it just seems as though there are not many boys out there that i want.
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reader, Tine  +, writes (10 September 2006):
 you are only 15, i say just sit back and enjoy your life. You are young and you have plenty of years ahead of you to be worrying about starting a relationship with someone. IF there are no suitable boys at your school then why not go further afield and go different places to meet different people. But i say that when you do find someone take things slow and easy dont be rushing into anything too soon. You may seem now that you want a relationship because you havent had one yet. Im not saying they are terrible however good things come to those who wait and all you need to do is be patient!
When you do go to college there will be plenty of different new guys there and just try to make a alot of friends and have a good time instead of worrying wether or not people will like you! JUst be yourself at all times and dont give people the impression that you are something that your not.
Have you thought that maybe you have a perfect picture of a guy in your head and you are judging every guy you know on that image?? All you need to do is try to get to know different guys with different personalities because chances are that the guy that you would least be attracted to normally, will sweep you off your feet on day.
But for the mean time i say just enjoy your teenage years, you dont wanna look back on this in a few years time kicking yourself because all you were thinking about was getting into a relationship with someone so young!
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