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writes: I stupidly had unprotected sex with my neighbour 7 days ago. And again 3 days ago. We are both single and at first I thought she was really nice. After the second time she told me she had missed her pill that morning. She has now been causing trouble with other neighbours and I don't want to get involved so I have told her I want to cool things down a bit, and stop seeing her so much. She said she wants all or nothing but I couldn't agree.Now she is saying she is pregnant. I thought it was too early to tell for sure but she is insisting as she has already got one 3 year old and found out last time in similar circumstances. This girl is obviously dangerous, BUT can she really be 100% sure she is pregnant so soon?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): there is no way that she can be sure she is pregnant i would not be worried if i were you
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reader, tux  +, writes (10 November 2006):
 Yeah something isn't right here.. though you can have early symptoms pretty early, like implantation bleeding but you have to look at more than just one symptom to determine how likely you are pregnant which is still a guess. You can't tell for certain unless you get tested or start feeling it crawl around. Just a plain fever doesn't mean you have the flu. (You meaning you or your girlfriend.) Chances are that after 7 days you problaly won't even see the first symptom.
But I think she is playing mindgames or playing entrap a good daddy. Chances are just as well she wanted to have your kid and problaly didn't take any pills with you. I wouldn't trust some women's words on birth control pills, until i was in a relationship with them to where it wouldnt be bad to have a kid even if we weren't ready. Just my cynical side and similar situations where a girl i was dating tried to get me have unprotected sex with her and even had one of the condoms from her stash spring a leak. But well it truly can be human nature working, after all sex in the end is about making babies and some people feel it more than others. I am one of them because I do feel that urge to become a father but for now the pill is in the way. but everyone's different.
in the end, you need to walk away and realise there's more of a chance of her not carrying your baby, let alone carrying one to begin with, than you being a father to her baby and her knowing for certain that she is pregnant after 7 days but then it really has only been 3 days in your case which makes it terribly impossible for her to know.It;s only been 3 days! Nope... not a chance.. It's really terribly hard to actually become pregnant and sometims it even takes 3 days for the sperm to meet the egg.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2006): i doubt she really can be sure, but i think you should read this article, if she already has a child then maybe you should listen her, womans instinct and all. anyway this is a really good sight. and it says you can get signs of pregnancy as early as a couple of days after conception. heres the link. http://www.ivillage.co.uk/pregnancyandbaby/fertility/conception/articles/0,,4_669512,00.html
hope this helps and good luck.
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reader, bonym  +, writes (11 September 2006):
 After 7 days she is claiming that she is pregnant, wait a minute is this woman God, can she forsee the future? Of course she isnt so how would she know? After 7 days of intercourse, how will she even know truly if he period is late, this woman sounds like a lunatic, stay well away. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2006): i seirously doubt that she could now yet. You say that she says she is pregnant 3 days after the unproteceted sex. Considering it takes about 3 days for the egg to travel down and implant into the uterus after being fertilised, there is no way that there would be enough pregnancy hormone being produced to show in a pregnancy test. I would advise you to put her on the spot and demand that you and her go to the doctor today and you be there when the doctor does the test. If it does come up positive i'd be asking for a dna test cause i doubt that baby would be yours. Don't let this women trick you into anything you don't want. And next time wear a condom!!!
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reader, Angel_A +, writes (10 September 2006):
 I'd be VERY surprised if she'd know for sure that she is pregnant so soon after having sex with you - I don't even think a pregnancy test would show it yet let alone there being any physical symptoms?!
I guess it's a possibility that her period is due now and hasn't arrived, but even still, to say she is pregnant could be a bit premature, her period could be late for any number of reasons.
I'd be very suspicious of her just now, perhaps this is her way of trying to pressure you into not "cooling off" - sounds well dodgy to me. Sounds very harsh but if she is pregnant I'd be interested in seeing the doctor confirm the due date incase she was pregnant before she had sex with you! - am so cynical!!!
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