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writes: i am 28 and a mother of two young children. i have been with my partner for 8 years and although i still love him and desperatley want to stay with him i feel that the time has come to go our seperate ways. we have been trying to sort out our differences for the past two years and we are no closer to being able to achive this. unfortunatley i am a recovering drug addict. i became dependent on speed and this is when things started to go wrong. i am pleased to say that i am now clean but it seems like pain and lack of trust i have caused is unrepairable. the difficulty i am faced with now is my partner refuses to be civil or decent about the break up. he is still living in the family home and making life extremley difficult. he very rarely speaks to me. he gives me no money what so ever. i do not work and therefore have no income of my own. he is causing problems for me with my friends (which he disaproves of)by making nuisence calls etc. the list is endless as too are my problems. i can not claim any benifits as my partner is a high earner so i am therefore not entitled to anything until he leaves.
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reader, soletshearit +, writes (11 September 2006):
 Listen by the sound of it this guy is controlling you.Get rid of him, he obviuosly doesn't even respect the fact that you have overcome addiction. If you have overcome an addiction then you can get over this fella...you said it yourself, its not working...get him out and also confide in your friends a little more, in that way they will pay less attention to the nuisence calls he's making to them.
What a plonker! Get outta there! You are clearly a strong person! Best of luck!
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