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writes: im 15 i havnt had sex yet, when i tried it with my boyfriend it was really painful and the inner lip of my vagina started to bleed slightly...i found this strange because it was as if it had ripped! we left sex and decided to stick to the oral stuff but now when he fingers me the same thing can happen...am i too small? i really want sex with him...but im scared..will i ever have comfortable sex?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2008): Heyyyyy .... I had that same problem.. I asked my older brother that I can talk to about anything and said that it happens when you pop your cherry.. So dont worrie. I dont bleed anymore..
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reader, LiLKiss +, writes (11 September 2006):
 ok in my opinion is that you are losing virginity.. i was 15 when i lost mine too and i really didnt know much about sex tilll now lol. umm the first time i had it it was really painfull and i bleed too not alot but lil bit and when i did it again i was bleading again. you might be tight but umm you should take it slowly and do it. the hymen is located right on the begining of vagina so when you get pentrated it bleeds because it gets ripped.. so try to go all the way but if there is a lot of blood then you should stop and i donno tray to go to Dr. with someone.Also your first time should be with someone special because i regret losing mine that young now im really in love with my bf and im 19 and i wished i give up to him but i cant change past but you can change future. He is 2 end guy i slept with and i advise you not to sleep with lots of guy.. thats all from me i wish you luck and play it safe..
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reader, Abacadaba  +, writes (11 September 2006):
 Dont worry, sex is bound to hurt the first few times with a bit of bleeding, try using lubericant when he fingers you, and try and get as turned on as possible (get wet)and also try to relax as much as possible,if problems keep happening, then maybe consult a doctor, also try fingering yourself because you know when its too much and can work your way up using more fingers etc etc, sorry if this isnt the best of answers because i am only 16 and really dont know too much about sex problems, but i personally have had troubles with making girls bleed and not being able to 'get it in', and ive found the best way is to do foreplay, and non sexual stuff which is a turn on (kissing the neck, tickeling, dry sex(not sure if that would be classed as sexual but oh well :P) maybe could try them). good luck, and play safe :P
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