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writes: I recently started back at school, to discover that I like (in a romantic way) one of my friends again. I hadn't seen him in the summer and seeing him again brought these feelings back.I've liked him before, but done nothing about it.Now I'm a bit confused as to wether I should tell him, or just let it pass. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2006): i think you should try find out how they feel about you.
if there a good friend you dont want to lose just make sure you can deal with rejection if tats wat happens you might need some space from them if this happens!
if you have liked them 4 so long its the best way for u to move on by knowing were u stand!
ive been in this situation myself and its hard if they dont feel the same but you just have a damn gud cry get it all out and youl b ready for 2 pick yourself up and get6 back out there sooner then u think!
and who knows maybe he feels the same or hasnt looked at you like that yet if he does who knows!
if your feeling shy maybe a mutual friend could try find out some1 who can be trusted of course!
best of luck!
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reader, x-L-x +, writes (10 September 2006):
Maybe you should try work out his feelings towards you too before rushing into telling him anything, this might scare him off and your friendship may not be the same. if i were you i would become slightly more flirtatious with this guy, more friendly than you have been in the past and maybe he'll figure out what your hinting...on the other hand this could just be because you've not seen him in a while and your letting yourself think there is something there...when it could easily pass within a week! dont make any moves untill your 110% sure you like this guy. good luck x x x
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