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writes:Hi, well recently i had my girlfriend over, we watched some tv and then went up to bed, and i accidentaly called her my ex-gf's name, which i found odd becasue the girl whos name i called her we didnt even have a good relationship with, let alone a sexual one, and i was talking to that girl the day before and maybe i thought about that for a second and thats why i called her it, but anyway, my girlfriend got really annoyed so we didnt speak untill morning, in the morning she didnt seem to mind and was acting normal, but even 2 days later i still feel really bad even tho she doesnt seem to be annoyed anymore, basicly what im asking is, what will be the best thing to do to apologise to her, cos even if she isnt that annoyed about it i still feel really bad. thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2007): what to ask my girlfriend??i always stuck on talking on the phone with her...i got no question to ask...plz give me some tips...or give me question for her..??
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (11 September 2006):
 This is why its easier to call your partner babe or something, I never called any of my partners by their name, they would have thought it strange if I did. My last 2 exes both had the same name, so that would not have been too much of a problem.
Stick to babe, you're safe with that.
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reader, sugapuff  +, writes (10 September 2006):
 it clearly ment nothing make sure she knows it really was a slip of the tongue god ive called my boyfriend by my brothers name accidently not in the bedroom tho of course
just ask her is she cool about it reassure her if dshes not and then dont even worry about it if u make a big deal of it itl become a big deal over reassuring is as worrying as under reassuring!
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (10 September 2006):
Abacadaba is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for the advice, ive been going mental thinking about it, i havent been able to speak to her in about a day because she has been busy, and i keep going over it in my head, ive wrote a really big letter telling her how i feel about her which im gonna read/send to her. According to one of my female friends who is close to her she is crazy about me too, so hopefully she likes me enuf to forgive me, but yea, im not gonna keep bringing it up, cos not only will it annoy her it will annoy me :P
thanks again for the advise
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reader, Angel_A +, writes (10 September 2006):
 Ditto to the previous answer, just carry on as normal, but be prepared to apologise if she does bring it up again.
Whilst I'd be a bit mortified if a guy did that to me, I'd also see the funny side at some point and just push it to the back of my mind, as long as I felt secure and loved in the relationship that is of course.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2006): all i suggest is to apologise and just leave it and dont bring it up again because the more you bring it up the more it reminds her of the night. just forget about it and carry on with your relationship.
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