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writes:Hey! Im 13 and I have Never kissed anyone, My ex tried to kiss me but i wasn't ready so i pushed him away. Sometime the thought makes me wonder what its like. I'm also begining to get feeling for my best m8s bf. I don't want to tell her as I don't want to ruin our friendship!! I'm sure if i can forget him, i won't have feelings for him. But it doesn't work! Please help with both of my questions! thanksxxx
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (4 April 2008):
 When you are attracted to your BBF's guy, this is what you do - NOTHING!
Some things don't have to be said out loud or discussed. Keep it to yourself. NO GOOD can come from this. She will not drop it or forget this if you do slip up and tell her, and it will come between you. Stick an elastic on your wrist and snap it every time that thoughts of him creep into your head to stop thinking about him. The theory of "aversion therapy" is that eventually you'll come to associate him with pain and just stop thinking about him because of it.
Even if he becomes her Ex - a Good Rule to plan on using for the rest of your Life IS - Don't date your friends Ex's. Why? You are bound to lose the friend for sure and probably the guy too! It's just too messy and life is TOO short. Better to date total strangers, especially if you know that you can forget him. The same rule works with brother's friends, sister's friends, friends of relatives, relatives of friends, well, you get the general idea!
One last thing, I still talk with some of my girlfriends from when I was 13, but NONE of the guys that I dated back then. Girlfriends are something that you should treasure, lots of them are for life!
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