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writes: Hi I need some advice.The Guy i love will just be coming back from his University….by the time I am only just LEAVING college to start my University. How can we stay together? Do long-distance relationships work? If so….can they work for FOUR YEARS (or more!!!!!) What is involved in a long-distance relationship? How do the two people keep the relationship going? PLEASE can anyone out there offer me any advice??PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2006): Keep talking, texting and dreaming of each other. You know inside if you are going to make it and nothing can stop that.
It's going to be a challenge but stay strong and don't get jealous if your partner goes out and makes new friends - remember they are only friends and love is very very different.
Lots of people do stay together throughout university for 3,4 and even 5 years! And so could you - I hope you do. Keep smiling and i truely wish you the best of luck :-)
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (10 September 2006):
 If you both have computers, I would suggest MSN and a webcam. This would help and make the distance a little more bearable. I am sort of in the same situation myself and have to travel to see my fiancee. I try to get up to see her at least once a month but have been up for the last 3 weekends. It is very difficult, but the people involved miss eachother and look forward to every moment together.
When you do get to spend some time together, make every moment count and then say I love you just after the last kiss.
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (10 September 2006):
 Hello, my brother's girlfriend is at university, and he takes the train down every weekend to see her, basicly, see each other at weekends (if possible!) and set a schedule when you can ring and chat (example, every night at 8pm, or every other night etc), make sure you talk about what each other has been up 2, and keep track of and take an interest in what they are doing, just make the effort to see them as much as possible and you will be fine.
good luck :)
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