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writes: okay well.. theres this boy i'v known him for three years now and we have been really good friends and av always had a thing for him and he says to me all the time that he's had a thing for me too.. recently i told hom i liked him again anf we met up and kissed but me being me thought he liked me cause we spent hours together that night talking and having a laugh and kissing..he made the impression that he did like me and days after he's changed.. he hardly talks to me and when he does he one word ansewrs me or flirts with other girls right in my face when he knows i like him soo much.. its stressing me out cos all i think about and talk about is him and i dont want to i want to get over him but its hard couse i'v known him so long.. what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2006): He is probably a bit immature for a relationship and just wants the friendship side of it. Just chill, give him a bit of a wide berth. Next time he is around go and flirt with some other lads. Have a laugh and keep him at arms length. He will soon get the message and probably come running after you. But don't run after him!!
If he still acts so childish and rude then forget him, there are plenty more nice lads around.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2006): He is probably a bit immature for a relationship and just wants the friendship side of it. Just chill, give him a bit of a wide berth. Next time he is around go and flirt with some other lads. Have a laugh and keep him at arms length. He will soon get the message and probably come running after you. But don't run after him!!
If he still acts so childish and rude then forget him, there are plenty more nice lads around.
Take care
xx
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reader, Thomas17  +, writes (29 November 2006):
 what i suggest is that you totally abandon him.
he's being really rude and its just not right to flirt with other girls. me, as a guy, i wouldnt do that..not unless i really want the girl who likes e.g. me to go away.
well, he sure is showing those signs.. just forget about him.
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reader, Aunt Charlene +, writes (29 November 2006):
 hello, you say he likes you, this is true,he does like you but it seems that he wants to be friends because he is worried about not having your companionship if you did splitt up, this is why he has "clammed up". suggest to him that you want to stay friends and see how he responds to that because if you can imagine his side he's thinking well what can i do now? she'll hate me if i say i just want to be friends, so by you telling him first will ease off the stress and he'll start talking to you as normal. hope this helps!
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