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writes: I was to scared to ask the first girl I loved to go out with me. She obviously liked me to, she asked me to save a seat for her on the bus, rubbed the seat next to her when she wanted me to sit down, asked me to dance at 2 partys and a school dance. And I was in love with her. We flirted with each other for months and I tried to ask her out every time i saw her, but i was afraid. I have never realy missed anybody befor in my life, i mean i have wished i was at my gramas house, but never felt sick to my stomach from emotion. Im 15 have been away from my father for months at a time my mother for weeks, hell I haven't seen my own brother in over a year and i missed this girl i hardly knew, this scared the sh*t out of me. I even bought 3 different sets of concert tickets (spent over 700$) and tried to ask her to go with me. And now she hasn't even looked at me in 6 months, one day she just stoped talking to me...what should i do?
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reader, Elmo Guy +, writes (30 November 2006):
Elmo Guy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry guys, when I wrote this I forgot... I turned 16 a week ago...close enough. Okay now I think I need to clairify a couple of things, I dont think she stoped talking to me because she dislikes me, I believe her best friend told her to play hard to get and that lasted for a while, and then it just got awkward. Secondly, and I don't mean to be rude in saying this so please dont take it that way, I dont want sympathy for this, I want to know what to do about it...from a womans point of veiw preferably, although if a guy has good advice go ahead. Also, when she was talking to me a mutural friend told me that she said she loved me when they were talking. You must also remember that I heard this in through rumor mill at highschool so how reputable it is may be questionable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2006): buddy just relax and breath deep got a 15 yr old boy at home know what you are saying but it is alot more decault if you keep thinking about it first try to talk to see what went wrong if you cant get a friend to 2nd call your brother 3 see if any one out there is interested then get to know her and see what happens good luck
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (30 November 2006):
Awwwww you poor darling. Love can hurt. It something everyone goes through, even the 'great' people, the people who you look up to and think 'wow thhey are so great'...they get hurt to. So first thing to remember is that, although you have had your heartbroken, it has nothign to do with you being not worthy of someone. Everyone goes through it, no matter how bad or good they are.
You could try talking to her and asking her why she stoped talkign to you. There could be a misunderstanding between the two of you. Like for example, in many cases, when one person stops talking to another, they could very well think that the other person wasn't interested in them or that they were ignoring them. So it could be a misunderstanding like that. Thats why its important for you to talk to her and ask her whats up. If you are too shy to come right out and ask her whats up maybe just trying talkiing to her about casual stuff and see if she wants to hang out. That way, she knows that you are interested in her.
But no matter what happens, you will get through this and the feelings of missing her will lessen as you beguin to move on. Believe me, this is just the first, there will be plenty more girls that you fall head over heels for. She isnt the last. And remember you are only 15...so young and have so much to experience. Don't let this girl get you down. You will have plenty more opportunities to feel like this about someone else and for them to return the feelings too!
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