| A
male
,
*f2mf
writes: Hi, i please need help i don't know what to do. i have been home one year now but i really wasn't content with my self, last week i got very drunk and cheated on my girlfriend, i know that this happened as a combo of my own state of mind and the alchol, i told her the next day, she got very mad sad dissapointed etc as am i. i cheated, i made the biggest mistake of my life i need this girl we will be so happy together i am so sad with out her, we are still talking i met her for coffee today. Q. How can i get her back??????
View related questions:
cheated on my girlfriend, drunk Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Skeez  +, writes (8 June 2007):
 Hey...I am a girl who has had this same situation happen to me with my boyfriend. He was drunk and cheated on me. Seriously boy you have to get your act together. Is your girlfriend more important to you or is the drinking? Sit down with her and tell and show her that you love her. U did something very bad and I had great difficulty accepting my boyfriend after that night. Show her tht you will never do it again. She may be hesitant at first and may act strangely around you, but I dont blame her. Shes getting herself soughted out, whether its deciding to break up with you or to trust you again. Keep telling her you love her, show her affection and let her have time to suss herself out.
Hope everything goes well
A
reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2006): to be honest with you:i think it means she isnt the right girl for u as u said she was. being drunk is not an excuse for cheating, its means there is more to it than meets the eye. i think u use the drinking so u can cheat on her. can i ask u a few things?: how offten do u drink?, u wrote thats has been one year since u came home, why did u come home? and why do feel u are not in contact with yourself? what did u leave behind? maybe if she was the girl for u all of this wont have happen - u are home but it looks like u are happy with yourself or your life
...............................
A
female
reader, Declure +, writes (30 November 2006):
Well I would have to say from my perspective that she will never take you back. I say this because that is one issue that I have with my fiancee. He drinks and I don't. I tell him that alchohol changes your attitude about things and he says that it doesn't. Well if he ever allows himself to be caught up in the moment with an alchohol chaser, he can forget about me and I mean it. I would have no respect for him at all because I feel like he had no respect for our love, future and relationship.
...............................
A
female
reader, AngelofLove +, writes (29 November 2006):
 Be patient and expect that you may need to give her some time to forgive you.
The biggest challenge will be to prove to her that it will not happen again. Try and understand why you were driven to cheat in the first place and try to resolve these issues together in order to move on.
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2006): listen getting drunk is no excuse to cheat. ive been cheated on in the past however he wasnt as honest as you. Even though he tried to get me back i was hurt too much to go back to him. so try and imagine how she feels.if you really love her prove it. i dont just mean sending her a soppy txt message i mean something that will really show you mean it.
...............................
A
female
reader, bonnismiles +, writes (29 November 2006):
 to be honest get down on your knees and beg make her feel like she the only one for you drink has no excuse i hope you know that as well
...............................
|
