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writes: hiya, i know people are going to laugh at this but, well i do like sex its just it makes me so emotional afterwards and i go into the toilet n cry, once i actually cried while we were having sex and so it took a lot of convincing to my bf that it wasnt his fault. i was raped as a baby but i don't really remember a lot so i just wondered why i do it n how i can stop it? i mean its obviously not normal or else porn starts would cry instead of screaming for more... im 18, so im emotionally old enough. any advice??
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): I too cry sometimes after sex and/or immediately after I climax, especially if it is a strong or very releasing orgasism. I have been told that it is due to a huge releas of hormones during the orgasism. I have no reason to cry. I love my boyfriend, I trust him, I feel safe with him sexually and our sex is very comfortable to me. I am not sad or unhappy, I just sometimes cry. Look at it this way, if someone can make you cry following an intense orgasism, he's a damn good lover, at least that is true for me. There are different levels and strengths of orgasisms and when I cry, I have had one hell of an intense orgasism. I have gotten used to the crying and I don't worry about it anymore. It is just what happens to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2006): i don't know if you are crying when you climax or after the sex is over, but i know that many girls cry when they climax. I've been told that it's because there is so much sensation and emotion (especially when you are having sex with someone you love) that they don't know how to let it out except by crying. it also seems to happen more during g-spot orgasums too. hope that helps
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reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (30 November 2006):
 maybe u don't remember when u got raped but that memory it's still somewhere in your head. Maybe you should get some counselling. Let me tell you that u're not the only one. I also cried a few times too! For some reason I get too emotional and I think is because I like it too much and don't know how to react to it. Are you sad about something? When this happened to me I was cranky and moody before we had sex. I think it was just a mix of feelings.
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (29 November 2006):
 Have you tried to get some councilling and professional help to allow you to recover from your trauma. Issues are affecting your life because they have been supressed. Whatever help you decide to seek, please remember that your a wonderful person who deserves to be loved and that making love should give you pleasure, nothing to feel guilty about as it was not your fault. You cannot change what happened in the past but do not let it rule your future. Take control and allow yourself to be happy. You need a lot of support and reassurance from your boyfriend and it may get better in time. Also be prepared to reassure your boyfriend as this will not be easier for him either. Even without traumatic experience some women cry after making love due to their low self esteem and need to feel truely love. Get some self help books on how to boost your confidence. You have your whole life ahead of you now, start living it.
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