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writes: i really like this lad we met about 2 years ago and we speak everyday but only see each other about once a month cuase he lives about 2 hours away, and i know he really likes me 2! and we dont feel like this about anyone else! i know he can see other girls and stuff as we arnt going out and i see other guys its just he sleeps around to much for my liking! hes slept with 10 people in about 4 months why does he do this?! i dont do it to him i wouldnt want to sleep with many other people as i have strong feelings for him Reply to this Question
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (29 November 2006):
 This is an open relationship that you have going on here, you may need to discuss some boundaries but sounds as if you always have a choice to keep it platonic. You may need to be prepared that sleeping around is part of his personality and by not hiding it from you indicates that he is not ready to reduce.
If you like him, you should accept him the way he is. He may argue that you are also free to see other guys, only that you choose let guys to go out with.
On the other hand if you do not like his large collection of girls, be careful not to get hurt as you may like him more than he likes you. Hope it helps, wish you the best and stay safe.
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