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writes: How can you make your guy your engaged to fall so deep in love with you and cant stand to be away from you? I know he loves me but it isnt like it use to be how can I make him just gush about me?... like cant stand when we arent togther and I miss those days where he would kiss me on the forehead for no reason. Where can I find him at and make him come back to his old self ????
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2006): You go up to him and give him a little kiss on the forehead. Tell him how much you love him with some of his favourite chocs or sweets. Surprise him with his favourite meal out of the blue. Gently kiss his neck, maybe when you are both watching tv. Do these things to him. If he doesn't respond then have a chat and say you want them done to you occasionally and you want things to be the way the were. I won't be exactly how it was. Relationships all settle down, but they shouldn't be allowed to get dull.
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (29 November 2006):
 Stop being like you are at the moment. He may be feeling like this, because you are being in-secure.
You cant make a person fall in love with you, it has to happen natuarally. And he must love you, otherwise he would not have got engaged to you would he?.
Try and calm down, and try not to force feelings from him. Put more of your energy into looking great, (for you, not him). If you feel good about yourself and more confident, he will come running again. Life is all about playing games, it shouldnt be, but it is.
Try to relax about it all, and it will be ok.
Good luck, im sure you have nothing to worry about XX
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (29 November 2006):
You should talk to him about how you feel if not already done. I'm sure if you explained to him how you felt and tell him exactly what you want from him (give clear examples) then he will try and make a change. Also maybe ask him what he would like too. So you both can get what you want from the relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2006): Hi there,
Love cannot be forced. Love is an emotional thing and you cannot 'make' someone to fall deep in love with you.
However, when you say is isnt like it use to be then that is your answer there. In a relationship, over time many people tend to lose that spark that attracted their and from there, things start to become less romantic like ituse to be. I would advise you to think about what made your partner attracted to you at the start, whatever you did at the start just try and do it again andtry and keep the spark going between thetwo of you.
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