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writes: My feelings for a work colleague have developed over the last year and i have been in a dilemma for a while as to what to do. I have now just found out that I will be starting a new job by the New Year. Should I tell him how I feel or should it just wait to see if he will make a move. Any advice will be appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, fairweatherblogger +, writes (29 November 2006):
OH DEFINITELY! IT KILLS ME MY MATE IS JUST LIKE YOU ONLY SHES AT UNI SHE HAS BEEN PRACTICALLY IN LOVE WITH THIS GUY FOR LIKE 2YEARS AND I TOLD HER IF YOU DONT SAY SOMETHING BEFORE YOU LEAVE UNI YOU ARE NEVER GONNA KNOW. THE BEST THING IS IF YOU DO TELL HIM AND HE SAYS... UH NO THANKS! THEN YOU NEVER HAVE TO SEE HIM AGAIN COZ YOUR LEAVING. ME N MY FELLA GOT TOGETHER AT WORK AND OURS HAS TO BE THE HARDEST WAY TOO COZ I GOT PREGNANT PRACTICALLY IMMEDIATELY BUT 2YEARS ON WER STILL TOGETHER SO IT CAN HAPPEN. IF YOU LIKE THIS GUY YOU MUST KNOW HIM ENOUGH TO KNOW HES A NICE GUY N HE WONT BE A BASTARD IF HE DOES HAVE TO LET YOU DOWN
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reader, Thomas17  +, writes (29 November 2006):
 well,if you keep waiting for him that time might never come.. i'd say you ask him out.. see how he is. if all turns out alright, you got yourself some love :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2006): If you really like him and want to have a relationship then go for it. Ask him out on a date, you might not like him after the date. Give it a go you have nothing to lose.
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