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writes: My girlfriend and I have been having sex for the past 4 months. Before her I was very sexually active with my previous girlfriend, and I never had any problems at all. With my current girlfriend I can not get her to orgasm. She is now on the pill so we have unprotected sex. I used to be able to give her an orgasm using my hand, but now she gets to a certain point and I can not get her to orgasm with my hand. She has never been able to have an orgasm during intercouse, we have tried many positions, but I'm the only one who gets anything out of it. After about an hour or so, she complains that it hurts a little bit, she has also told me of an uncomfortable feeling against her bladder, or what I am guessing is an uncomfortable feeling like she has to pee. I really want to please my girlfriend, I need some advice. I have considered going back to using condoms, for a lubricant, but I feel that won't be enough. Please help me out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2006): Not all women find it easy to orgasm at all, but just because she doesnt orgasm at the end doesnt means she is not enjoying it. Worrying about it will just make it worse and make her feel more uncomfortable. Not all women are the same..
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reader, ellie6 +, writes (24 November 2006):
 You have got nothing to lose by wearing a condom the next time you have sex to see whether that makes any difference.
Don't be embarassed about this, talk it through with her and make sure she is completely relaxed and comfortable when you are having sex, maybe this will make a difference?
One night if you have time, spend a long time doing foreplay and using your hand to see if this makes her able to orgasm.
Sorry I can't be of more help.
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