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writes: i really like this girl who is 14. i'm 16. we met once before. havent really after again. had a good chat for about 2hours. after there's just been smiles and hi's when we go past each other in school. i want to ask her out before xmas! i got her msn, but we talk once a week only if i start. when we chatted before i thought she liked me but now she isn't showing any signs. i want to know her more and ask her before the 23rd december before my holiday. any ideas how we could meet? her cousin is in my year and is my friend. them 2always together so that's good for me. any ideas how i could tell her i like her? if she rejects me i wanna sound cool not awkward! please help! shall i tell my friend who is her cousin? good idea? i cant tell the girl i fancy to come out because i barely know her but i can tell her cousin who is my friend. thanks alot for readin!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2006): look if you think that you can;t ask a girl out because she'll think that oyur uncool your slightly mistaken.
notnevery girl in the world now is a shallow girl most actually want to hear what you think so just ask her or you'll never know.
soemthing a good friend once told me was that
the only thing as a stupid question is a question never asked.
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reader, ellie6 +, writes (25 November 2006):
 Well, I think you should get to know this girl on msn/ in person a bit more so she finds out more about you and you find out about what she's interested in.
Then you could just casually say, dya want to go to the cinema on friday? or dya wanna bowling with a group of your friends, i.e. her cousin and some other people to make it less obvious that you like her and you can just focus on becoming better friends before you jump in.
You could tell her cousin, i mean, thats up to you, but i think this girl will find it much more manly and cute if you ask her to go the cinema with you yourself. I mean, she's hardly gonna say no to going to the cinema!!
Just try and sound as casual as you can. If she starts to say no then say, "we'll invite some mates so theres a big group of us", so she doesn't feel as pressured if u two were alone.
Good luck!!
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