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How should I move when I'm on top?

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Question - (24 November 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 22 January 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

When having sex and I'm on top I don't really know what movements to make, like I move my hips forward and backwards quickly but my boyfriend once said to me "Can't you try something new? And move differently?" so I think he was kinda getting bored :S

He's much more experienced than me, and I was a virgin when I met him so I don't know what's expected of me.

What other movements do you ladies do when your straddling your boyfriend on top??

Thanks for your time x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2007):

to be honest im having problems with this positon to!! i relly cant see how its meant to be better for the woman? i have tried and tried but if i sit up straight i cant move at all its like im paralised!!! i can only lean forward about 45 degrees and move towards his chest and back again but once he is inside of me my clit is halfway between his belly button and base of his dick so i cant grind on him at all. we have tried using cock rings but he goes soft with them even the vibrating ones!! i tried reverse but that was worse, i had pain gettinghim in, but once in i couldnt even tell how far to move up and down before he would come out!!! i gave up after 5 mins that way

what the hell is going on cause ive been trying this out for years now and not once hav e i ever had an orgasm anyway but its definately out doing woman on top i cant get my clit to even know theres something going on by any means

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2006):

i found if he lies down sit facing away from him with all the things in the right place it is very good

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2006):

I have dicoverd a new position with me on top and my boyfriend loves it.

try a squatting position put both hands on his chest whilst your inserting his penis then bounce up and down it looks a bit like your doing an impression of a frog!!, but trust me it really gets your man goin as they can see everything and so can you.

and a variation on this is if you lean back a bit and rest your hands on his thighs this is really good for you too.

and it feel tighter on your boyfriends fella!.

have fun

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A female reader, des16 United Kingdom +, writes (24 November 2006):

des16 agony auntface to face, slow deep riding motion like a grind.

put your hands behind you on his thighs to support yourself. rise up slowly so all that is in you is the tip, sometimes hold that position count to 3 (in your head) and down again.

a few bunny hop like movements, taking a little more than just the head with up and down.

his face to your back

stay connedted deep on him and rock ur pelvis back and forth.

you can play with ur clit at the same time or even get a vibrator and place it between his sack + anus add a little pressure to that poing and he should enjoy it.

in ann summers there is a rubber ring like a condom ring. its stretchy and has a clit vibe on it to please both of you.

its called the joyrider.

its very good at keeping him hard and u both turned on.

each one lasts about 18minutes. but stil 18minutes of buzzing fun.

i hope i have helped. if all fails ask him to move your body the way he likes it, hes being a tad insensitive as he is your first sexual partner. but be honest with him tell him what you like.show him places you like to be touched. tell him your fantasy ask him his. role play.

give it a go and good luck. xxxx

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A female reader, laura_18 +, writes (24 November 2006):

laura_18 agony auntAsk him what he wants you to do. maybe try bouncing and moving your hips at the same time.x

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