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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Feel used,dirty and sexually taken advantage of!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6760 days ago

18 May 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid, This is a gay sexual related question. I've been with my long distance partner for almost two years. We are each others first with this being a "gay relationship" however on my side he was my first, and I lost my virginity to him. When we had sex, he'd watch me... (177 words)

I want to leave him but he keeps blackmailing me to stay!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - I've got a bit of a problem...I've been married for 12 years and I truely think that I married for the wrong reasons. Our marriage has had it's ups and downs. Don't get me wrong, he is a good man - but has had some problems with his anger in the past. I'm not sure if I was ... (377 words)

Falling for him hard but not sure i want to risk friendship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6760 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - I have a relationship problem. I am 18 years old and me and this guy from school became really good friends. He always wanted to go out with me but I liked this other guy and would get into relationships with other people but they didn't last too long. He however has alwa... (365 words)

Is acting carefree and prenting to i'm moving on the best way to get my ex back?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6760 days ago

18 May 2006 (M) - I am a 25 year old gay male. I met my boyfriend who is 23 a year ago and it was a love at first site. Were both each others first loves and both our first serious relationship. Things were going great...or at least I thought they were. We had been having a few little fights and ... (275 words)

I'm happily married but there's this attractive woman at work who likes me! What should I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6757 days ago

18 May 2006 (M) - Hi There. I'm in a spot of bother at the moment. I'm married,quite happily and have 2 children and darly love my wife. BUT.... there's this girl (yeah I know!!!) whom I work with. We get along great and she's really attractive. She's engaged to be married but but kinda gi... (68 words)

Shaving fantasy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6760 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - Why are guys so fascinated in women shaving? My boyfriend wants me to and he's given me a few reasons i just wondered if anyone could enlighten me further. thanks... (30 words)

He's 52, I'm 17...how to get to know him..so we can be better mates?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

18 May 2006 (F)

- I'm 17, he's 52. We get on well and we've known each other for over 5 years. He calls me a mate which is great but we don't know much bout each other. We've always speak whenever we see each other and i trust him but i still don't know much bout him. I leave school soon, how do ... (102 words)

Growing pains

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6760 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - The inner lips to my vagina are really long and slightly bumpy! they have been like this since i was about 11!! im worried there may be something wrong! i have only just become sexually active and im now 17! help im worried i may have something!... (47 words)

Should i ask her friend to give me the number?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (M) - Would it be advised for me to ask the my crush's friend for her number? Her friend and I seem to get on very well and always talk. A few years ago my crush and i went out for 6 months and enjoyed each others company but we broke up due to harrasment from other people. This last... (134 words)

Insecure boyfriend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6759 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - My bf really has trust issues. He wont let me do anything. i cant even go to the tanning bed because a guy that i used to mess with lives close to there. how can i get him to trust me more?... (42 words)

His a drug addict & has trust issues, i'm thinking of leaving, what do i do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6760 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - Do I stay and work it out or move on? My husband and I have been together for 8 years. We met when he moved in across the street from me 14 years ago. His sister and I were best friends, so I got to know his family pretty well. We have alot of history together, but th... (692 words)

Calling all married couples. How do you feel about first loves and exs??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6760 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - Hi there. I'd really like to hear from the married amongst us. What feelings do you have towards your 'first loves' and exes. I'm getting married and I have a feeling that the argument about whether to invite his 'THE EX' is looming. ... (44 words)

I feel sorry for him if i finish it!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - hi i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now we live togther but the thing is i don`t know if i still love him i feel sorry for him if i finish it i am 27 he is 47. and fancy someone else now what should i do ???... (52 words)

Should I get pregnant by this man

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6593 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - This is really stupid i know but i'm completely in love with this guy, who's told me he wants to have sex with me. The thing is, i know he doesn't have any strong feelings for me, and i'm tempted to try and get pregnant with his baby so i can have a part of him to love and care ... (77 words)

Threesome etiquette

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - I've been offered a threesome and i don't really know...the details. How do they work? Do you take it in turns or something? Sorry if this is a stupid question but i need to know.... (35 words)

My best friend's boyfriend is a harmless flirt, help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - My best friend's bf is a harmless flirt, but i know it really pisses her off that he doesn't treat her that way. She tells me she gets really jealous and often says she 'hates' these girls. He just happens to have a lot of close friends who are girls. The thing is, i'm getting ... (92 words)

Getting over my exgirlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (M) - My g/f of about 3 years and I broke up about 4 months ago b/c she said she was unhappy out of the blue..I had just bought a house near her parents, my whole life turned around and i was so happy..she is 23 and i am 30..i suspected something might be going on and when we moved ... (493 words)

Is my ex a friend or more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - I don't know how i feel about my ex. When we were together it was amazing, my best ever relationship, and i think because of that i feel as though i'm really close to him now. We're friends, but i don't think he realises how significant he is to me. We talk on the phone for ... (269 words)

He's putting cycling before me and our relationship. Should i end it?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - Why does my boyfriend love his bike more than me? I have recently got together with a long term friend. We have known each other for sometime but have only recently realised our feelings for each other. I have always known that he is really serious about his cycling... (270 words)

How to go pubilic about my new relationship after the break up of my marriage.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - Hi, First i must say that i have always found your column very helpful and i can relate to some of the advice given. Well here is my problem, six months ago i came out of a marriage that i was more a convenience than a wife, i had looked up to my husband for everything, my w... (407 words)

Decided to give cheating boyfriend another go but having a hard time of it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6760 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - Quite recently i discovered that my boyfriend had slept with my best friend while we were together. We have decided to stay together and worked out our differences. I sometimes have a hard time and have started to become a little controlling, i also suffer from mild depression ... (78 words)

Sex with an ex but just friends sex....is it normal?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - My ex bf and I started talking again, now everything is so great and we're friends - well....more than friends I think. A week or two ago I told him I was still in love with him but since then my feelings have changed (i think). Now he just feels like a close friend but with ... (177 words)

Want to marry, want to attend therapy but want to see other girls

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6760 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - Hi there, Thanks everyone for your advice on my last question... A rollercoaster ride.. Well, we had our first therapy session today. It went OK, but the focus was more based around what we are to do about going overseas rather than the matters at hand, i.e. my b/friend dati... (685 words)

Climaxing, orgasms and all that confusing stuff at 15

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - hey i am 15 and when we have sleepovers etc we always play truth or dare i have been asked a number of times how many times i have climaxed or had an orgasim what are they? are they the same thing? and how do you know you are having 1 sorry i sound so stupid wb xxx... (60 words)

So in love but so different

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for a year and a half. We do love each other but seem to be soo different. It seems that when I need to talk about something (which is not that often and always with reason) he always gets soo defensive and turns everything around on me. I ... (172 words)

My gay ex never turned up for a meeting and now ignores me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (M) - Can someone help me work out my gay ex. He left me for another lad who is 33 and has just come out of a divorce and has two kids. I recently met my ex and he said things were not working out, saying he was being made to feel second best. Anyway, after our meeting he stunn... (192 words)

My boyfriend has had 6 lovers and I am a virgin

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - I've been seeing my 22 year old boyfriend for almost 3 months, and last night I learned that he has slept with 6 girls in his past. I'm a 21 year old virgin, and knew that he had had sex before, but I feel so differently now that I know his history. I really like him, and he's ... (143 words)

My boyfriend has been hanging out with other girls

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - Hi, My BF went to a bike rally for a week. He went out one night as did i. I call him at 2 am at the hotel and he was just getting in. He said tonight wasn't anything great. And i said you were with the guys? He said there was a group of us. But then i said again--just the ... (241 words)

Torn between 2 men, my husband or high school boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - I love two men and don't know who to choose! A little background: I am married and have been with my husband for eight years. The relationship for the most part is great, we don't have huge fights, he doesn't hit me or cheat on me, we enjoy the same things and make each other ... (378 words)

My boyfriend keeps photos of his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F)

- My problem isn't the biggest, but it's still been bothering me a lot. The other day I was looking in one of the rooms downstairs and remembered that my boyfriend had brought over a box from his parents (my boyfriend lives with me and my parents). So I wanted to see what thin... (174 words)

How do I stay friends with my ex

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6750 days ago

18 May 2006 (M) - I dated a girl for just over 2 months and it was the best relationship ever. Not only were we a good couple, but we were the best of friends too. At the beginning of the 3rd month she asked me if we could just remain friends as other factors in her personal life were gettin... (315 words)

My husband has been seeing escorts....is it my fault?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6708 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - I have just found out my husband has been visiting escort agency girls - dominatrix in particular. How should I handle this? Is it my fault as I haven't been too interested in sex for about 6 months. thanks... (44 words)

I just need to get away and my bf doesn't support that...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - Im 20 and My partner and i have been together for about 2 years and everything has been great, Although i have been through alot with him he was there for me hen my friend passed away and recently when my friend was murdered. Suddenly i feel like i need to get away, not from... (144 words)

I haven't had a boyfriend yet, but my friends have.....what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F)

- help me....im 16 an have never had a bf. i feel so left out when all me mates start talkin bout theres coz i aint got one. is it coz i aint pretty enough or coz i aint got a great personality. i have loads of mates, sum of whom are boys, but no one seems to consider me to be gf ... (68 words)

Boyfriends little girl passed away and he's now spending time with the mother... what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - my boyfriends little girl died 2weeks ago when i was up north with him! but it happened at his ex's! the funeral took 2 weeks to happen it happened a couple of days ago and since he went home and he has spent alot of time with his ex!! and the night of the funeral he stopped ... (128 words)

Sweet, sweet revenge!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - Advice on sweet sweet revenge. Last year my boyfriend forgot my birthday, and on that day someone told me that I was attractive, naturally I told him, as we don't keep secrets, as he tells me when someone does that to him too. However on the day prior to my Bday, I told him... (191 words)

Want more than to just be a rebound... how can I know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - Ive met this man who ive met twice now, I really do like him but ive been hurt so many times by men off internet dating sites and all I want is a relationship but nothing ever develops. This particular man who does seem very interested in me,he only split up from his wife 5 ... (150 words)

I don't trust my cheating boyfriend. Time to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - ive been in a relationship for 8yrs, ofcourse there were breakups to makeups, mainly because he was cheating. he impregnated another woman behind my back and we are still in a relationship. i dont know whether to trust him or not, because he says he loves me and he has changed, ... (103 words)

Is saying "I love you" really that important?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

18 May 2006 (M) - im a guy whos with my girlfriend over 6 mts. do i need to tell her i love her as i feel i show it enough. i dont usually talk that soppy. chances are she knows i love her by my actions?... (43 words)

What should my boyfriends priority be? Work or me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - is it reasonable to expect to be my bf's #1 priority (or at least up there after his parents/siblings)? during a "discussion" i said that i felt like i was last on his list of priorities, i said it in the middle of the sentence and he addressed the last thing i said but not ... (89 words)

We've been in love but no longer feel special or happy.. is it too late?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6760 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - when i first met my boyfriend i was so in love with him that there wasnt a second went by i didnt think of him. but over the years it seem to have gone .now i feel like we dont share anything part from the bills he never makes me feel special anymore and doesnt matter what i do ... (107 words)

8 month relationship.. seem to be the one doing all the work... time to end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - i dont know whether I should dump my bf or try again. my problem is that although we live just 10 mins apart and both have mon-fri 9-5 jobs we never see each other, usually just once during the week and fri and sat night. at the beginning it didnt matter as it was still new an... (503 words)

From complete love to being alone... how can this happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - If someone says they love you with all of their heart, and promises to love you and cherish you for always used to send you flowers, and express their love, make you smile, talks about marrage kids, a family then out of the blue everything turns around, and you're alone, ... (170 words)

Problem getting a job... husband not being supportive...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - My husband says things like I make him unhappy he is always positive and happy and he is the bees knees whreas the opposite he wont talk to me or anyhting. He said i am finding it hard to find work because I live in a remote area I have no money coming in except £69.00 a... (123 words)

Big, skinny, tall, short, thin... what is attractive???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - i am 16. do men prefer curvy women or their bodies to be more straight? mine is quite curvy and im not sure if that is attractive???? Also do they prefer small or big breasts?... (36 words)

How do you make the first move without looking desperate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - I'll try and keep this short and sweet. I have been dating my bf for awhile, im not a virgin but he is still alot more experienced then i am and said hes not gunna do anything i dont want. I want to have sex but dont know how to make the first move. Is there anyway to make him... (85 words)

Am i paranoid? or could he be cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and our relaistionship has been great. We really care about eachother and have even talked about marriage. Lately, both of us have been really busy finishing graduate school and we hardly see eachother. When we do have time to get ... (205 words)

We went from trying to work it out to just friends, i'm so confussed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (M)

- I posted a question a couple of weeks ago about me cheating on my girlfriend of 6-1/2 years and getting her pregnant. Of course we broke up but we still talked, went to movies and held hands as we have always done. She said that she wanted to work it out and we could do ... (236 words)

It ended with a good night hug, what is the next step in dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (M)

- Is there a dating protocol? I must have been sick the one day they taught that in school because I find myself lost without a road map. What to do? I lean in close when she talks. I let my arm flank the side of the table over towards her. My feet follow suit. I guide h... (132 words)