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writes: ive been in a relationship for 8yrs, ofcourse there were breakups to makeups, mainly because he was cheating. he impregnated another woman behind my back and we are still in a relationship. i dont know whether to trust him or not, because he says he loves me and he has changed, but everytime his firstborn's mother comes back from overseas, he acts strange, as in he behaves like i have to compete for his attention and love. we also have a son together. i relly love him, but feel im wasting my time in this relationship. must i hold on, or let go?
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reader, mariaelizabeth +, writes (18 May 2006):
you know you dont want this, or you wouldnt take the time to ask people who dont even know you. you need to see it as someone elses problem and you know what you've got to do. hes wasted that long of your life cheating on you, making you feel down and worthless. their is a man out there who will respect you, and love only you, dont waste your time thinking it will sort itself out. Get someone else while you're young and theirs still some love and trust left in you! this happened to my sister and she was bugged by him begging for her back for about 5 months, if he cared enough about your relationship, his mind wouldnt be with another woman. xxx
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reader, Aunt Audrey  +, writes (18 May 2006):
 Only time will tell if your partner is still a cheat or not, it's whether you want to stay with him long enough to find out.
If you feel you are wasting your time in the relationship, maybe it's time to let go.
Have you told your partner how he makes you feel when the mother of his first child is about, and how it hurts you? He may not realise what he's doing, so tell him. You have been together for a long time, and you have a child, but if you cannot put his past actions behind you and learn to trust him again there's little point in the relationship continuing.
Good luck!
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