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writes:help me....im 16 an have never had a bf. i feel so left out when all me mates start talkin bout theres coz i aint got one. is it coz i aint pretty enough or coz i aint got a great personality. i have loads of mates, sum of whom are boys, but no one seems to consider me to be gf material...what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2006): You can wait it out until college/uni. That's when things are delicious!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2006): well if there is a boy you like ask him out to see the reply. life isnt all about boys, some girls are better of without them as they are abusive. so just ask someone you like out or get flowing with a boy then ask him out.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (18 May 2006):
 You have loads of mates...so you have got bundles of personality! Don't put yourself down about not being pretty enough because ultimately beauty is in the eye of beholder...there are boys out there who will think you are a stunner. What's more, a lot of beautiful people are really boring because they have got by on looks alone and long term relationships are about friendships based on the ability to communicate and get along.
It is perfectly ok not to have a boyfriend at 16! I didn't have my first proper boyfriend until I was 22. Young boys don't always make great boyfriends as they can be immature compared to girls of the same age, so don't always think being a couple is fantastic as it can be a drag as you will know if you read some of the posts on this board. It is not a question of getting a boyfriend, it is a question of getting a boyfriend who is right for you and very nice to you! Don't be pressurised into getting a boyfriend just because your friends have them - it takes a stronger, more independent person to say no to peer pressure and to wait until the right person comes along.
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reader, mariaelizabeth +, writes (18 May 2006):
well hun, easy... go to new places! try lots of different sport clubs maybe, or go to gigs/concerts and put yourself out there, and when you feel an urge go for it! how cool would it be if some confident guy came over to you and asked your name!? think of someone who you'd like to be, someone everyone likes, whos confident and fun..you can be them, its all about how you hold yourself. and try meeting friends of friends too, then its even less scary xx
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (18 May 2006):
 ear iam sorry to hear that listen right don;t be intoo much of a hurry the right person will come along .
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