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writes: My ex bf and I started talking again, now everything is so great and we're friends - well....more than friends I think. A week or two ago I told him I was still in love with him but since then my feelings have changed (i think). Now he just feels like a close friend but with some serious lust between us. There's a lot of sexual tension and we've both acknowleged it. We were talking on the phone and majorly flirting when he offered me sex. He already knows that the main reason I went out with him was because I wanted to lose my virginity to him. He calls it 'doing a friend a favour', which i suppose it is. It makes sense, we've already explored each other's bodies so we feel comfortable about all that and I suppose i'ld also kind of see it as closure. I know I want to do this, I just wanted to know if it was a normal situation and if it'll change things between us.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (18 May 2006):
 Using each other for sex is fine if it is what both of you want and im not sure both of you do!
I do think you are in lust and not love and worry that this sleeping with each other may stop you both moving on and finding partners for more than just sex.
Make sure he is not the one in controle of this as if he is then you are being used and that is not what you want, my advice is to tell him to find a new bed partner and go out and find yourself a new bloke who wants a relationship in the true sense of the word.
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reader, CRose +, writes (18 May 2006):
I don't know if I would call it a normal situation, but it does happen. I've had a relationship like this in the past, and it worked for me (for a while). If you are in love with him and he doesn't feel the same this will cause you pain in the end.
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