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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Have a big crush on my step sister, She is not blood related, Is it ok??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6616 days ago

3 May 2006 (M) - Ok so im a 16 year old guy with just like any other man a sex drive to many hot women. So anyways my father recently got divorsed and married another women which had 2 daughters one of them is 16 and the other 21. They are very attractive and cause they had become my step ... (218 words)

How can I gain the respect I deserve without leaving him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6756 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend treats me like crap. Sometimes he's just messing around and tells me to get a sense of humor, (which I have) but he goes too far, and hurts my feelings, like he'll tell me not to touch him all day, or to F*** off, or Go to hell, and that hurts. I can do way better ... (168 words)

Is he using me or is he genuine?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6775 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - Hey there..im 17.i have been seein this guy for about 2 weeks now. before i got with him, he 'apparantly' had a bet with his mates that he could have me, but he denies this... He has a reputation of a player, but i find that he is really sweet and genuine..hes told me he loves... (120 words)

Why do I think he's too good for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - I met this new hot perfect guy who seems really interested in me...trouble is i don't know why,i feel like he's too good for me! What can i do to feel more worthy???... (33 words)

I attract too many guy, how do I attract less?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6776 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - Am i just a tease?? So loadsa guys always chat to me n stuff wen im out and im always friendly back (i hate bad manners:P)Thing is there is now soo many guys that want me and somehow think deep down that i want them, i dont want every guy i meet to feel awkward around me! What ... (100 words)

I'm not ready for marriage, but he wants it so bad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6775 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - Marry him or break up? I have been dating with my bf for 5 years who really love me, I think he has stronger feelings for me than I have for him. The thing is he is urge to get married and wants to be together afterwards, I am not ready for marriage at this point, plus I am... (225 words)

My best friends have a baby, but they argue all the time and I'm stuck in the middle!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6774 days ago

3 May 2006 (?) - two of my best friends had a baby in september 05. they get on well most of the time, but there are arguments as they are both as stubborn as one another. the recent arguement is whether the father can bring his best mate to the christening. the mother does not like him. i can ... (123 words)

What is my "sweaty" date doing in the toilet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6775 days ago

3 May 2006 (F)

- Everytime me and my new bf go on a date to a restaurant he does the same thing. Well as soon as were seated; he looks uncomfortable and then excuses himself to go to the bathroom. He's usually in there for about 10 minutes; and then we he comes back to the table it looks like ... (91 words)

I've been faithfull for 5 years, but I still have to put up with the insults and accusations!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6775 days ago

3 May 2006 (M) - I never wanted kids, but then my partner fell pregnant on purpose. We got married and it took me 5 years of cheating and being an idiot to come to my senses. I changed my likes my visions and after nearly getting divorced begged her to allow me back. I promised her that my ... (312 words)

The doctor prescribed viagra, but I'm not keen, any other ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6775 days ago

3 May 2006 (M) - im 57 years old male been married for six years this is my second marriage.my problem is for the first few years we had great sex. but the last year i just dont have any sex drive at all my wife tries her best to get me going but i make a lot of excuses. i find it difficult ... (90 words)

My guy won't let me go out with out him, what can I do? I feel trapped!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6775 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - Hi,i am in this 11months relationship with this guy, and he asked me for engagement after 6 months that we have been together. Now i am living with him in the counrty side, away from the city and away from all my friends. He won't let me go out along to clubs unless he comes ... (140 words)

I liked this guy, he said he liked me, but then it was all about his girlfriend....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6776 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - Please help!i became good mates with this boy and i then realised i was startin 2 fall 4 him big time!i then found out he has a girlfriend!he said he liked me bt then became less interested n he started talkin bout her realy sweetly.he says hes in love with her bt im now in ... (85 words)

I want to become more girlie, but I don't know where to start.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6776 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - hi this is for Ana 183 agony aunt (and everyone else that can give me some advise of course) u may have read about me being a tomboy and wanting to become more girlie, but being too embarressed cos i will get teased by my friends and family saying: you are girlie now, u r wear... (156 words)

She wouldn't have sex til marriage and I cheated on her. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6775 days ago

3 May 2006 (M)

- I had been with my fiance for 6-1/2 years and we were engaged 2-1/2 of them. She refused to have sex with me until marriage and she wouldn't plan a wedding that we could afford. I ended up cheating and possibly having a child on the way. I regret being so weak and I love ... (143 words)

I broke up with my boyfriend and now I'm getting close to someone else. Is this a good idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6771 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - hi, about a week ago i asked if i should dump my bf cos of the way he was treating me and i did and i never felt better about myself, but there is a guy ive been getting really close to, we txt each other everyday and chat for hours every evening and we have done since i broke ... (161 words)

We have an age gap, but I like him, but none of my friends do, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6770 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - i'm 19 and theres this 29 yr old guy that likes me! we are slowly getting closer as friends! he is really kind and friendly and he is easy to chat to! but none of my friends seem to like him, also i dont know if the age gap is too big for us to have a relationship! is 10yrs too ... (62 words)

We broke up, but we still hang out quite a lot, should I stay or no?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - i dont know what to do me and my boyfriend of three years broke up and have been for two months i dont want to lose him so i still talk to him and and pratically with him all the time he gets mad if i talk to other people. I ask him where we stand and he tells me he doesnt want ... (94 words)

We were planning our future, but now he doesn't want to be with me....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6775 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - My live-in boyfriend of 6 yrs whom I'd just bought a flat with broke up with me a month ago. We were planning our future together (mariage, kids etc) but both felt we didn't want it yet but in time. Then he broke up with me and has moved out but hardly taken any of his stuff so ... (262 words)

I can't stop thinking about the guy I was having sex with when I wasn't with my boyfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6775 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - i have been going out with my bf for over 2years now. we split up for a while in august last year and got back together in the november. we both still loved each other very much but both felt we had to split up. when we were apart i started having regular sex with this bloke ... (128 words)

I'm always thinking I look fat and now I want to quit eating...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6767 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - Hi i have a bit of a problem on my hands... You see i'm 12 and in sixth grade and ever since 5th grade i've always considered myself fat.I was so upset about it last year i stopped eating and then got very sick but lost a lot of weight and looked almost the way i wanted to ... (215 words)

My husband was having an affair and lying about it.....why would he risk his family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6776 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - i found out sept 2004 my husband was texting a woman he worked with we had arguments he said he would stop texting their was nothing else going on. oct nov 2004 i found phone calls and texts to this woman he still said nothing was going on he promised he would have nothing to ... (270 words)

I really like this girl, but she's ruining her life. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6776 days ago

3 May 2006 (M)

- There is this girl I really like but she seems to be intent on ruining her life. She had a bad time in the past with her last boyfriend who treated her badly. And now I think she has low self esteem and is insecure about herself. For the last year or so she has been going o... (227 words)

We broke up, she's with her ex, but now she don't even want to know me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6776 days ago

3 May 2006 (M) - hey my g/f just left me after 5years together after she said she doesn't want to be with me she went straight on anti depressions and has gotten back with her boyfriend before me in a month of us breaking up i try to ask her why she left me and i am being nice to her like i ... (158 words)

I'm pregnant, but I fancy another guy besides my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6765 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - found out about 6 weeks ago that i was pregnant and my boyfriend and i are really happy about it and are keeping it. However i also recently started a new job and there is a guy here who is paying me a lot of attention and who i really fancy. He doesn't know i'm pregnant. I ... (150 words)

She's always having more than one guy, should I stay or go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6775 days ago

3 May 2006 (M) - There is this girl I work with who I just can't seem to get over. We have had and on/off relationship for the past 6 months or so. I really care about her but she always gets drunk and does stupid things. I found out recently that she slept with my best friend and lied ... (160 words)

I'm not sure which guy I should be with, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6776 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - I've been with a guy for over two years and for almost all of that time I've been seeing someone else on and off. The guy I'm with makes me really happy, and has never done anything wrong or upset me and our relationship has gone from strength to strength. However, I liked the ... (127 words)

I'm not sure how to tell my parents that I'm expecting a child, I'm still their baby...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6775 days ago

3 May 2006 (?) - I am a 21 year old female and my partner is 26 and we have just found out that i am expecting our child. I was scared at first but soon came around, we are both madly in love with eachother and we both know that we will always be together but i havent told my mum and dad yet ... (119 words)

He was getting messages from some girl at his school and I think I don't know everything...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6776 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - hi, i hope somebody can give me some good advice, i stayed over at my b/fs flat one weekend and about 3 0clock in the morning he had a missed call on his mobile, i didnt reconise the number as i looked to see who it could have been anyway when it was morning i told my bf that ... (192 words)

We broke up, found others, but now I miss him sooo much...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6776 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - My fiance and I hit the 7-year-itch back in 2004 and decided to split. We spent little time together and had become more like friends. We were due to marry the following year and had our own house, etc, so the break up was extremely painful in certain ways but we both thought ... (215 words)

Husband would rather look at porn than get intimate with me, What should I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6652 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - I want to know what to do im married but my husband just doesnt seem to want to make love to me, he would prefer to look at porn on the net an on videos ive tried everything what can i do... (42 words)

Urine is coming instead of semen, Please help??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6776 days ago

3 May 2006 (M) - my girlfriend enjoys giving me head, but lately when i feel as though i come i shoot urine into her mouth. it is not intentional, and is about the same volume as my semen. what is happening??... (37 words)

Boyfriends parent disaprove of me, How can I change their thoughts??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6776 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - the parents to my boyfriend hate me coz they believe am not good enough for their son.help... (17 words)

Feeling of nausea wont go away, Is it my girlfriends new found friends??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6774 days ago

3 May 2006 (M) - I feel sick and cant sleep whenever my girlfriend goes out. I've been with my gf for 5 years now, I've always been the strong one, in a way I've always felt in control of the relationship! Recently she has met new friends and seems much happier than she has ever been, excep... (145 words)

Feel like new man is controlling me, What should I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6776 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - I have just turned forty and met the most amazing man. My daughter, family, friends and work mates all think he's wonderful. The problem is I feel smothered by him although he lets me do as I wish. He wants to spend 24/7 with me. What is wrong with me. I should be at my most ... (67 words)

Feel left out by boyfriends love for drama and music, What should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6776 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - hello i've been in a relationship for a year and a half.Everything is really great i hav no worries about cheating or anything. The thing is my boyfriend studies drama and he is very busy working with a lot of people all the time. Im also studyin, but he also has a band. He ... (207 words)

His mother does not approve of me, What is the best action to take??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6776 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - I've been dating a really sweet guy for 8months now. Everything's been going really well, untill his mother moved in with him a month ago, due to financial constraints on her side. She's always in my face when I'm there and she makes subtle comments to make me aware that she ... (218 words)

On off relationship is getting to me, What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6776 days ago

3 May 2006 (M) - Hello, My girl and I have been dating for around 7 months, we have recently seperated due to a few issues, but are still looking at it as a relationship, she didnt like me looking at porn ( which I have ceased doing ) and was insecure about her appearance for various reason, ... (98 words)

How do you know when enough is enough, Need advice??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6776 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - How do you know when a relationship is worth saving? When you've both never been so in love or thought there was someone so perfect, but you somehow, despite good intentions, manage to keep hurting each other, how do you know when to just give it up and move on? We both want ... (86 words)

How can I let her know that she is the one for me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6751 days ago

3 May 2006 (M) - I'm dating this girl now for about a month, she's completely changed my life for the better, after many rough relationships and I'm falling completely in love with her but I don't know how to tell her because she's not quite sure what she wants yet and I don't want to scew it ... (61 words)

Friend said he does not have time for me, Should I ask him about it??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6776 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - I really like this guy and I got the feeling that he liked me too, however my friend asked him about me and he said he is just too busy to have a girlfriend- I know that he is always working nights so it is true he doesnt have a lot of time to himself, but surely if he liked... (73 words)

Boyfriend asked odd question, How do I respond??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6775 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - "What would you do for me?"My boyfriend just asked me this question and it stumped me.So much so that I couldn't answer the question.Like how people say,"I'd die for you."That's what he meant.What does this mean and most important,how do I respond???... (42 words)

Due to get married shortly but have developed strong feelings for my co-worker! Everyone is looking forward to the wedding...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6773 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - Please help, I have been with my partner for 9 years and am due to get married shortly. I do love my partner who is a wonderful man but recently I have developed strong feelings for a collegue. This collegue and I have always had a flirty relationship but recently things have ... (145 words)

Too shy to talk to the boy, What is my best action to take??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6771 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - i like this guy but i've never really talked to him and im too shy to so what can i do to get him to talk to me???????????... (28 words)

She is more attractive 'mentally' than physically, am I a horrible person??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6775 days ago

3 May 2006 (M)

- Hi there, I want to ask this, because its going through my mind right now, there's this girl im going out with, shes like my best friend (1 of them), im attracted to her alot more mentally than physically, don't get me wrong i love her to bits but i find it hard to get around t... (102 words)

I'm in a sexual relationship with my older stepsister, afraid of what our parents would think.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6776 days ago

3 May 2006 (M) - Iam a 17 year old male from England and for the past 4 years I have been having a regular sexual relationship with my stepsister who is 4 years older than me. It all started while our parents were on their honeymoon and she was left to look after me she told me she had planned ... (118 words)