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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How much time apart will damage our new relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

25 May 2006 (M) - I have had a thing going with a girl for a while now. Last night she was talking about how she has finally moved on from last bf, and talking about what would happen if we went out. Good news, I think. Now I don't know how/when to ask her out. I'm going to a movie with her... (116 words)

What else can I do to catch his eye, so he'll appreciate the New Me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - I haven't seen the lad I fancy for months and the next time I see him will be in a month. I want to impress him that I have changed, and look much nicer than I did before. So I have dyed my hair back to its original colour, which looks much better than before. I have ditched... (114 words)

Never gotten off with my boyfriend, no matter what we do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6758 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - I have never had an orgasm with my bf before, or with any bf. We haven't had sex yet, but we've done just about everything else I can think of, and it's sexually arousing but he just can't get me off. I thought this was perfectly normal, until I started discussing such mat... (73 words)

I have a big crush on a boy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - dear cupid, okay so i have a crush on this kid, well at least it was a crush that was kind of like an "i just want to hook up with you" crush. but now it has turned into an "i really like you" crush! i can't ever get him off my mind, everything i do im always thinking ... (194 words)

Agony Aunts: Are we too soft with our problems?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6784 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - Have things become too complicated? Do we try too hard to namby-pamby, silk-glove every type of problem instead of just saying "bite the bullet" and getting on with life ? Being honest is such a panacea (sp?) for all ills. I am serious - I worry about the self-sufficiency and ... (84 words)

We're both over 18, so what can I do about my infatuation with my teacher?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6784 days ago

25 May 2006 (M) - Hi I'm head over heels in love with my religion teacher. She is new in the school and she is only 23. I'm 18, which has only got my hopes up even more. She never did anything with us in her classes because we don't have to learn religion for our exams. She is not your average... (446 words)

Now that I'm allowed to see her, my old girlfriend isn't insterested any more!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6776 days ago

25 May 2006 (M) - Well guys/girls, I have a problem and I really dont know what to do... this is the story... I was with this girl, Valerie, for about 9 months. At the time, we felt really strong for each other. We ended up doing something really stupid, we had sex. Her mom found out and fo... (212 words)

He went from 60 to zero in six weeks! What did I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - I was seeing a guy for about 6 weeks and we were having a great time. For the first five weeks he was texting me all the time saying I was the one for him, but then all of a sudden the texts stopped and he said he just wanted to be friends! I didn't chase and i left it. It ... (118 words)

I'm afraid of penises... Even the word "penis" scares me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6783 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - I have a huge problem. I am afraid of penises; they scare me. The way they look and how huge they are. The word "penis" scares me to death. I am afraid I will never have sex! What can I do?... (42 words)

Why am I single??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6784 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - I've been single for like forever and i dont know why i think ill never get a boyfriend. but im always around guys and i know some like me but we like never go to an actual relationship. I guess i get scared or something and i stop talking to them i need some help in finding a ... (67 words)

I am not physically attracted to me but shes wonderful!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6784 days ago

25 May 2006 (M) - Hello. I feel sad just typing this in. My problem is that I have been dating a brilliant girl for a year now. I am in my 30's and she is a couple of years younger. I have never been treated this special by anyone before. Back to the problem: I am just not physically attra... (188 words)

Is there a romantic future for us teenagers

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6782 days ago

25 May 2006 (M) - I'm 19 and have been in a relationship with a 16 year old girl for almost a year. I'm at University and she's going to start college next year.Whilst I live away, the distance has never really been a problem as we would normally see each other at weekends.However, recently it's ... (261 words)

How do I stop thinking that I'll get back with my ex... so that I can move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - ello ppl (i am 15) how do i get over my ex i have liked sooooo much for years? i am trying to get him back by talking to him a lot and trying to impress him. i have a feeling he may go back out wiv me in the future and i think thats why i cant get over him! but how do i get ri... (86 words)

Any tips on making friends... and keeping them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - Why am i so a lone. I try to make friends but nothing happens. Or they will be friends with me for a little while then one day they act like they don't no me. I NEED HELP!!!! What do i do... (47 words)

The girl at school don't believe me, but her friends do! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

25 May 2006 (M) - erm this ones a bit complicated, Basically the girl I fancy at school is really annoyed at me, she says I've been telling her secrets to people because people know about them now, I haven't told anyone anything but she doesn't believe me. This girls friends all believe me I ... (99 words)

I can't control this feeling that I have, any advice will be much appreciated!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6782 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for six months now and overall it has been going great, of course we have our ups and downs but the relationship is very good, i love him deeply and he loves me too. the problem is, is that ive never been ina proper relationship before and im not used ... (355 words)

I want a better sex life with my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6784 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - im 17 and me and my boyfriend skipped the oral stuff + went straight to sex. but i want to do the oral stuff now but dont no what to do! can you help? i think its important as i want to pleasure him more. we have only slept with each other + we are not sure how to experime... (103 words)

She's way obsessed with my boyfriend, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6780 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - Hi there. My boyfriends ex wants him back. I asked her to stop texting him at wierd (late) hours then she told me she had sex with him last week. He denied but admited he went to talk to her to leave him alone. We have been together 6 months and she was his bit on the side ... (260 words)

We want to go further, but I've never done this stuff before...I need advice..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6784 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - Im really worried because my boy and i want to go further but i keep getting scared to take the next step. Also Ive never had anything done to me before and ive never like given head or anything what do you do? Another thing is that i know we are planning on having sex soon but ... (86 words)

I've been texting my friend's ex......I can't even tell her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - Um where do i start? well.... my friends ex boyfriend and I have become really good friends and i really fancy him. The reason they both broke up in the first place was because she realised she didn't fancy him - there relationship only lasted 4 weeks. Me and him have been ... (156 words)

We got into a big fight and I lost her....what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

25 May 2006 (M) - i have recently split with my gf of 1 year and 4months i love her so much and i dont wanna lose her. we had an arguement and i hit her and i told her i was sorry and that i wont do it again i want help so i can get her back she told me she loves me alot so i need your help ... (85 words)

A girl is saying she did stuff with my boyfriend, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - please help me i dont no if my boy freind has cheated on me the girl is going round saying she has done somthink with him and i realy dont wana lose him ????... (34 words)

My boyfriend wants me to sleep with his friend

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - I'm 18 and have been dating my 21 year old boyfriend for 6 months. He's a virgin, and surprisingly, doesn't want sex at all but suggested to me that I should sleep with his friend instead. I'm not a virgin; I've had sex once with my only other boyfriend before him. I... (101 words)

I think there was a LOT more cheating going on than my wife admits!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

25 May 2006 (M) - I have just found out my wife has cheated on me, but I am not sure as to what extent. She arrived home at 4.30am Monday morning after being out with work colleagues. The next day she was acting strangely and I could tell she was lying about where she was until this late hour. ... (129 words)

Really want the girl to know how I feel before uni breaks up. Should I tell her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - I have only a few days left until I leave uni for the summer, and I have had major feelings for someone throughout the year. We are good friends and she knows how I felt about her but considering this, we are still close and flirty. I don't know whether I should tell her ever... (120 words)

What can I do to help my sister get away from the loser she's with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6786 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - My younger sister (19) has a new baby with a guy that is a very bad seed.. no job no, high school diploma, no license (cause he lost it due to well - bad things)And has been in jail many many times... oh and then there is the cheating on her and the drug use! She still ke... (128 words)

Attention, guys: I want to know what men are looking for in a woman!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - I need a guys perspective on this one... I was a very self concious pre-teen, I always hid in the shadows because I was afraid of what people would think of me. But as I got older I became more confident in myself, and for once I am now happy in my own skin... I hav... (180 words)

Fallen out of love with my hot-tempered husband, but I don't want divorce, either...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - Need advice urgently. I’m married for 1 ½ yrs, no kid. I have problems with my husband. He’s very hot-tempered, flared up easily. Always impatient when talk to me. He always put on grouchy face which spoil my mood a great deal. This hurts me a lot which caused my love for ... (514 words)

I want it to be her or me, but I'm afraid he'll choose her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a few months his best friend is a girl. They dated in the past for a while, but it didn't work out. He doesn't like her that way, but she is madly in love with him and obsessive, never going to leave him alone. She is jealous of me and ... (134 words)

Why doesn't he like to talk to me every time I call?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6784 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 7 months and he's really sweet, but sometimes I feel like he doesn't want to talk to me when I call, and I know he loves me because he tells me does. It means a lot to me, because i love him more than anything. So do you thin... (91 words)

Made a mistake and visited when he said not to. Was I really that wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6249 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend works every single day. He gets up at 4 am and goes to sleep when he gets home. One day he was home so I called him and asked him if I could come see him. He said no but I went anyways because I feel like I never see him. His grandma let me wake him up and he w... (96 words)

I have a phobia about hugging, and it's driving me nuts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - I am a normal teen, just trying to live the best I can, except there is one thing that is getting in the way of my everyday life...... my phobia. I have a major phobia against hugging. I don't know why and it's killing me! Showing affection is just so hard for me because ... (153 words)

I'm ill and worried he will leave me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - I've been really ill for 5 years. A year and a half ago i met my boyfriend. 4 months ago i became worse and am in and out of hospital every week. This is now a real strain on our relationship as i'm depressed and scared about my heath. I've had people in the past promise to be ... (116 words)

Sex isn't painful anymore... it just feels numb. Is that all there is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6737 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - I have a problem with my relationship. I'm 22 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We broke up last year because I found out my boyfriend had someone else. He said it wasnt important to him, he just enjoyed the attention he got from her. I forgave him but ... (689 words)

He did'nt txt me back, does this mean his gone off me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - I asked a boy out a week ago and we have arranged to go out next week. He is very busy at the moment looking for a new job etc and he told me last week he had an interview this week so i xted him good luck. and he didnt txt back to say thank you.Has he gone off me?... (61 words)

Revision is getting in the way of us seeing each other, and I'm tired of coming second!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - Hey all, My boyfriend and I are in a long term relationshp and we've been arguing recently over his refusal to come home (he's too busy with revision etc) - even though it means he won't see me for 6weeks (we've never been apart this long). I gave him a sort of ultimatum... (207 words)

Fifteen with a 23-year-old boyfriend. Illegal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6783 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - I'm a 15 year old female from New Jersey. I was wondering if it was legal to date (without sex!!) a 23 year old male? If so, besides having sex/oral, if it was possible for him to get in trouble? My mom tells me its illegal for us to even just date and I was wondering if it wa... (138 words)

I keep sabotaging my own relationships!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6786 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - I am really bad with guys. If they are nice with me and I feel although they like me, I'm happy at first, then I get bored and cheat on them!! Or if they don't seem too bothered about me I get really insecure and ask them questions all the time like 'do you honestly like me?... (155 words)

Why can't I get over the "bad boy" I haven't seen for six months?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6485 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - I liked this guy for so so long. He has loads of different girls. I slept with him twice cos I naively thought that he would like me back. He txt me saying 'I've always liked you. I want you to take me seriously and I want us to have fun together'. I told him I'm moving away ... (179 words)