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writes: Advice on sweet sweet revenge.Last year my boyfriend forgot my birthday, and on that day someone told me that I was attractive, naturally I told him, as we don't keep secrets, as he tells me when someone does that to him too. However on the day prior to my Bday, I told him, he got angry and said that I must go out with him and see how its like... He didn't speak to me, and got very jealous, and angry.He didn't talk to me on my birthday, was very blunt and ignored me, broke my heart, and I sent a message at the end of the day thanking him for remembering my Bday. He called apologised, and said he hated himself, and that he didn't mean to hurt me, but it really did.His birthday is this weekend and he is away for the weekend with family, and He's been distant, should I not send a message from me, just to be spiteful for him to feel what I feel every time he forgets me?Or am i being stupid?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2006): Have you considered ending this retarded and rather immature relationship with him?
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reader, bonym  +, writes (18 May 2006):
 My friend, it seems a tad childish to take revenge on him like that? I am not insulting you, just stating an opinion thats all. I am sure you know better than that, dont play him at his own game, show him what a good girlfriend you are, dont purposefully forget his birthday to spite him. I know deep down you know that it would not profit you anything to be spiteful. All the best. xXx
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (18 May 2006):
 It takes a better person not to take out revenge however disappointed you have been in his childish behaviour...if you feel the need for gameplaying then you have got to ask yourself some questions about where this relationship is heading because from reading between the lines there would seem to be bigger problems that need addressing. Perhaps it is time for a chat with your BF?
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reader, mariaelizabeth +, writes (18 May 2006):
be the better person, he'll feel really guilty and childish for it. smile to yourself and know that you did a kind thing and that he feels like an ***hole. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2006): As the saying goes two wrongs dont make a right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2006): I think you would feel much better if you don't act like he did and instead you send him a happy birthday message.
If you stoop to his level, you are no better than he is.
You'll regret it and it can only make your relationship worse. You said he appologised, so why not forgive him this time?
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