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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Could he snatch my babies if they have his last name?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6768 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - Hi there, I have a new problem. Im due to hace twins next week. The babies' dad and I split up when I first became pregnant and he has someone new now. I decided I would bring them up myself, I am a mature woman with a good income and these are my 4th and 5th babies. I am well ... (487 words)

Am I wrong for loving it hard and rough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6781 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - i can only cum when i have hard, rough sex, i was with my ex partner for almost three years and she loved rough sex and didnt like me being gentle to her. anyway im now in a new relationship with a great girl and i find myself hurting her when we have sex, which turns me on, ... (186 words)

Stuck in love triangle... What should I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6781 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - Hiya, this may sound silly to some people but I convinced myself I loved this girl for the last two years of my life and she never did anything for me, I was willing to do anything for her, but two weeks ago I met one of my close m8s friends and I really like her, shes shown me ... (241 words)

Worried about private parts.. Any advice appreciated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6779 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - would a female be detered by my penis? it is just under 6 inches erect but i cannot pull the foreskin back. i am afraid that i wont be able to have sex properly but i can still have good orgasms.... (41 words)

Parents wont let me see my new guy... Please help??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6782 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - im in loove with this fela ive known for half year.he has girlfriend but has now left her for me.we get together on nites out an meet then.we want to become serious and have a relationship.as im only 17 and he is older by a few years i ran it past my parents first.did not go ... (143 words)

Boyfriend treats me like unwanted object.. What should I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6781 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 2 months and i already dont know if i can trust him. i only get to see him once or twice a week and when he goes out he never asks me to come, and when i call him the next day he says that he didnt get home until 3 or 4 in the morning and says ... (101 words)

Husbands holiday is really getting to me... What should I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6781 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - My hubby and I haven't been married a year yet... The opportunity came up for him to go to Myrtle beach with his friends and he of course with no hesitation, agreed to go with them without discussing it with his wife first. When he asked me if he could go with them (a week ... (152 words)

I think I have feelings for my one night stand, should I tell him ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6782 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - I am 22 and single, and very recently had a 1 night stand with a guy from work, only now I have to see him everyday and I think I might have feelings for him. Should I talk to him???... (40 words)

Now that I fancy him, he's got a girlfriend do I stand a chance ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6157 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - I fancy a guy who used to fancy me but who now has a girlfriend. He says he loves her but he still flirts with me. Do i have a chance with him and how can i find out how he feels about me?... (44 words)

He doesnt include me when he goes to church, what should I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6782 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - What should i do , when my partner of 7 yrs has been invited to church several times by his boss and family and he does not include or invite me,but he continues to go alone? Then acts as if nothing is wrong? ... (43 words)

Why is my sister so mean to my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - ok i am getting so annoyed with my sister. i have been with my bf for nine months now and just starting a week ago my sister(she is my twin) keeps saying "your bf is ugly" "he is fat" "he has big ears" and none of those are true mostly the "fat" one he has abs! but i have to ... (128 words)

Possesive boyfriend is making my life hell.. Please help??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6781 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - i cant make my mind up to be with a guy.. its really stressin me out and making sick - how do i make the right choice? This guy is very jealous and possesvie and smashes my things - he has had girlfriends but always came back to my house and we have had a sexually relation... (257 words)

I have moved on from my ex, but she has issues and I want to help, should I try to ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6782 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - I still care for my ex but have successfully moved on to seeing other people, the days feel less boring and I feel much better about myself, etc.. etc.. In other words I'm over the break-up... And wanted to thank everybody here for the good advice you've given me I am ... (248 words)

My friend has organised a blind date with an older girl, How do I act ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6781 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - Help Please! last night my friend told me that he has organised for me and him to go on a date with two other girls. I said ok but im quite worried because im 16 and the girl im seeing is 17 or 18 and i have never seen her before. Does anyone know how i can talk to someone who ... (89 words)

We were going to get back together, but I am worried, I think he found someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6782 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - My ex said he wanted to get back together with me but not until he's sorted his life out. He said to leave it about a month and then see how things are then. Thing is, we're losing contact with each other. We haven't spoken for about a week, which doesn't sound very long but it ... (86 words)

How do you stop a relationship being all one way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6782 days ago

28 May 2006 (M)

- How do you stop a relationship being one way. My last relationship, I felt, was one way especially towards the end. Even if my next girlfriend is nice and friendly towards me, I'm worried that I'll have to keep in contact with with her by always arranging everything like when ... (54 words)

I'm afraid I might cheat on him this summer...while we are apart. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6782 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - me and my bf have been going out for a few months! weve known each other for years! and weve been best friends for about a year........we broke up once because he wasn't being a good bf......but 3 weeks later we got back together.....and things are sooo much better!! we really ... (210 words)

He can't forgive me for a long ago affair...I am so unhappy. Do we divorce or keep trying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6781 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I was married for 7-8 years now. First two years when we had sex it was all about him. He had it for 30 min and I was enjoyed it too but not as I could. He never asks me about how I feel after his love except traditional: 'I love you' and reply: 'I love you too'. ... (410 words)

Am i going too far for a 13yr old?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6778 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - im really frustrated.....some ppl think that 13 is too young to have there bf go yup your shirt.......i dont think so!! i need some opinions!!! i dont feel like im 2 young!! i wouldent let some random dude do that!! me and my bf have been going out for a few months.....but w... (148 words)

If a guy doesn't date in 4-5 years...do women really think he's a loser? And why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6782 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - I have a situation where I have recently recovered from a long term (10yrs) illness. I lost a fair bit of weight because of this illness and basically women became less friendly, and I was single for all that period. I need advice on the issue of sexual history or lack of ... (277 words)

Girlfriend's behaviour is confusing me... any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6782 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - Hi, This is a very strange situation for me. A girl was in relation with a guy but this guy she said used to slap her etc etc. She told me all this and I told her that if she thinks its causing her harm then she should break up. In this process of listening and talking to h... (262 words)

Mixed race relationships.... What do you think???

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

28 May 2006 (F)

- Hi, what does everybody think of mixed relationships, i.e mixed race relationships? Do you think that even in today's society, it is ok for lets say an Asian woman to date a white man, or a black girl to date an Italian etc etc. I ask because I find that I seem to be attracted ... (104 words)

Hung up over ex.... driving me nuts!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6781 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - Hi all. after 10 years I am still head over heals with my ex and its driving me nuts he is however back in my life now and would hate to let him go again without telling him how I feel the thought of rejection holds me back he txs and has the nack of making me feel v good but ... (102 words)

I think i'm bisexual or a lesbian... confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6775 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - I think i am bisexual or a lesbian i am only 13 years old.I have never kissed or been intimate with a boy.I look at girls at school and wonder what it would be like to kiss or do more with them. This boy asked me out 2 nights ago but i'm torn whether or not to go out with them ... (72 words)

I love him, but we are different races...What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6782 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - My mother wants me to break up with my boyfriend because he's Bengali and I'm Pakistani, she's furious with my decision and won't hear me out. I love her too much to not break up with him but I love him too much to give him up. I've cried myself into a frenzy and don't know ... (77 words)

In love with my second cousin!!! Should I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6682 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - i am in love with my second cousin, at first i thought it was just one of them silly little crushes i have, but now i know that i love her, but i do not know what she feels about me, as i have asked her out before and she said noo and im afraid to ask her again. can you ... (64 words)

Still love my cousin... what shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - i seem to be in love with my second cousin, first i though it was a crush but it wasnt, i mean you do not have a crush on someone for almost 2 years, i want to ask her out but i think i already know the answer as i have asked her out before through a friend but she turned me ... (76 words)

Do I take this friendship further?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6782 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - ok im 22 years old and am casual friends with a guy--meaning we hang out when theres parties but not really anywhere else. basically long story short---we think alike. hes not into relationships and neither am i. i believe we're both afraid (he agreed) which is fine bc im young ... (146 words)

Boyfriend cheated....can I trust him???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6781 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - I found out that my boyfriend cheated on me for the first 3 months of our 1 year relationship with his ex girlfriend who he went out with for 10 years and has kids with. He said that he didn't take me seriously then but does now. He says that he takes me so seriously now that ... (119 words)

I've never kissed a girl but tomorrow that could all change!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6781 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - I am going on a date tomorrow with a girl that i really like, and im quite sure she likes me too. It's not the first time ive gone to a movie with her. But I have never kissed a girl on the lips or anything before, or asked a girl out...to be steady. Tomorrow is time to do ... (81 words)

I keep on falling in love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6782 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - Okay, I don't exactly know how to describe what's wrong with me. My problem might seem strange, but I fall in love very easily, and very often. Well, that might not sound like love, but it happens a lot and it's a huge problem. Maybe it's infatuation, but it gets in the ... (148 words)

Cant keep it up during sex... whats the problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6782 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - I am having trouble keeping an erection during intercourse but not during oral or masturbation what is my problem?... (19 words)

He yelled at me over his driving embarrassment, and now I just want thinks to be OK again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6783 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - CUPID please help me! The new guy I went to prom with and now dating for 3 weeks, we were pulling out of school on our way in town and he turned soooo fast I flew across the passenger seat into him! I hit the steering wheel and we just bumped in to the curb! He got soooo mad! ... (218 words)

Want some ideas for non-sexual turnons!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6782 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - I'm not old enough to have sex, or to have oral sex (and I'm not planning to any time soon),so what are some things that my bf can to do make me feel turned on? Any place above the belt that he can touch or rub or somthing like that that will turn me on?... (55 words)

Feel like I might be the only virgin in my crowd!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6776 days ago

28 May 2006 (M)

- Help! I'm 18 and I think I'm the only virgin out of all my friends. They all have girlfriends and I've tried and failed to find someone. Even when I did it only lasted a month. The rest of my friends have been in relationships for 4 months at least and every now and again I get ... (108 words)

Does she want me to keep giving her space, try to restart our relationship... or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6783 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - I was seeing an older woman. The age thing never bothered me, and at first it bothered her but she soon got over it. Everything was going great with our relationship. Then about 6 months into the relationshipIi was a couple hours late getting to her house, because I had to h... (414 words)

I'm contemplating divorce... here is my dilema...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - Should I finally get divorced to my wife? My wife and I have been married now for 17 years, I am 38 yrs old, she is 35 and we have one kid 16 yrs old. We got married early as you can tell if you do the math. The reasons I have thought about getting divorced break down to 2 ... (962 words)

Not worried she'll cheat, but I'm concerned about all the male attention my girlfriend gets!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6782 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - I've been going out with a really great girl for almost a year. Everything's going really well and we love each other very much. But, I just have a couple of niggling doubts... The first thing was that she started to act a little weird around me one day that concerned me. I ... (232 words)

After my pregnancy the relationship is fading away...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6767 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - I was in a relationship for 10months then i fell pregnant we split up then got back together when my daughter was born at first our sex life was great but over the last 6months it has gone down hill it does not feel the same as we argue most of the time and it feels as if the ... (89 words)