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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We're both so stressed we snap at the slightest comment!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are going through a bit of a rough patch. She's really stressed at the moment. She's doing her exams. I'm a bit stressed cause I'm changing jobs, resulting in arguments. I try to be as supportive as I can, cause she needs it right now, but if I say the ... (97 words)

Guys, can I win back my On Again, Off Again boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - For the guys...how do I win the love of my life back when we have had an on/off relationship and now we have split for good? It's been about a month but I really miss him and want him back. What should I do?... (44 words)

Best friend moved in on the guy I loved from afar!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

22 May 2006 (F)

- My Best friend has asked out the guy I have loved for over 11 years. She's rubbing it in my face by kissing and hugging him in front of me and she keeps telling me all the details of their nights out. It's making me feel so upset becuase I have loved him so long What shou... (66 words)

Everyone seemed to forget my birthday. It was crap.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (M) - Some may think this selfish, but hell, my birthday today was crap. It seemed like everyone had forgotten. We are going on holiday this week but still. The house wasn't the same as normally, my mother got my cake today. I dunno it just seemed poor. And last min.... (49 words)

Construction work career, or hairdresser?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - My husband of ten years is a construction worker. An opportunity has arisen for him to start working in a hair salon that belongs to a high school friend of his. It´s a job he's always aspired to and has a natural talent for. On one hand, the it's a safer, cleaner, less tir... (161 words)

Men: please tell me why I can be a "great girlfrend" and still get dumped...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - Man's advice! I finaly ended it with my on /off boyfriend because he keeps going hot and cold on me and his reason for this was because he hasn't got time for a girlfriend. He said I'd be a great girlfriend but hasn't got time for me. Why?... (49 words)

Help! Advise me on how to carry on, now that my relationship is over!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - Hello all. You have been a great help to me so far, so I have one final question: After a complete sham of a relationship has come to a very sticky end, how does someone regain self-esteem, confidence pride, dignity and self respect with no friends or cash, while trying to ... (82 words)

So tired from work that I don't have energy enough for sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend says I don't love him anymore. I have a full time job which has different hours. He has his own business from home, so he's more at home than me. Most of the time I'm exhausted from work and our sex life is being affected. Sometimes it's 3 times a week, sometimes ... (171 words)

What career should i choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - I am studying to become an engineer , but if I have to be sincere I suck, I have always got good grades but since I started at the university I hadn’t been able to get good grades , I am failing most of my courses. I am studying engineer because of my pride(I have always ... (126 words)

Climax Dilemma

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6786 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - I don’t think I have ever felt an orgasm even with all the foreplay (finger me , clitoris) my ex used to do, he was the only one reaching one, now I am alone and horny , and I don’t want to have one night stands or frees because of this, can you explain me how to do all this ... (65 words)

My boyfriend thinks about sex with other people

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (M) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years and he no longers wants sex with me. When he masturbates he thinks about sex with other people. Does this mean our relationship is dead and i should move on? Or does it mean sex is boring and if so how can i change it?... (55 words)

He says that sex with me is rubbish

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - ive only slept with one guy my boyfriend and he has always said how good the sex is really good but then he just says its got rubbish and used to be good but ive got big (if u get what i mean) but then he will come back to me still and want to have sex loads still. i dont kn... (80 words)

My boyfriend cheats and treats me badly

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6391 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - ive been with this boy for well over a year now and he says hes mad about me and loves me but he keeps doing things to hurt me, hes got with other girls, sent me a pic with him and 2 naked girls, send me pics of girls (not their faces!)tryd getin with my mate once, stayd in my ... (102 words)

My boyfriend keeps treating me badly and cheating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - guys and girls advice needed!there is this guy ive been with for a year and a half now on and off, i really love him and hes my first which makes it even more special i think but he keeps changing his mind about us all the time, he will break up with me for no good reason and ... (124 words)

My wife is thinking about her ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6708 days ago

22 May 2006 (M) - hi I am married for 2yrs but been with my wife for 14yrs.two years ago she went back home for her sister wedding and there she met her former boyfriend who she hasn't seen or spoke to for 12yrs. when she came back she kept contact with him until I found text messages between ... (200 words)

My relationship is fading... what can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6774 days ago

22 May 2006 (M)

- i'm 13 and me and my boyfriend have started to become more distant, i haven't seen him for a long time, what could i do to help the relationship. (by the way i'm a bisexual guy)... (36 words)

I find sexual activities disgusting! How do people bare it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - i have a question that is really confusing me. why would anyone want to finger someone? or have oral sex. it is discusting. tell me why people want to do this. how can they bear fingering someone?!?... (37 words)

How do I flirt with a boy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - i am 14. there is this boy i like, we are mates. but i want to start flirting with him but how do i start cos i have never done it before?... (32 words)

A decade of marriage... move on or try one last time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - Hi, I need some advice! I have been married for 10 years and I want to finish my relationship with my husband. Both have 41. I am not happy with my husband because we have to much problems, one of those problems are his parents health that has made him so attached at them and ... (246 words)

Going through a divorce and recent guy I liked has let me down...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - i'm going through a divorse, i met this guy who is 14 years younger than me who was going out of his way to run into me and making strong eye contact but never asked me out, he told me he was busy and would have free time this summer, well, i seen him taking a girl to the show ... (154 words)

How do I get my man to slow down

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - at the beginning of march, i ended it with my ex after he got really un-communicative with me after his best mate (girl) split with her fella. a few days after he was with her. She was eight months pregnanat at the time, as we were together 7 months, this pretty much screwd ... (157 words)

Guys and makeup...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - i am 15. i dont where make up. why do guys always go for the girls that wear make up?!? it isnt what they really look like, they are painting a different face on themselves basically. why do boys like that, or do they??... (44 words)

My ex owes me money! Can I get it back???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - hiya im just wondering is there anyway i can get money back of mt ex that he owes me.I lent him 300ponds back in january i sent him 60pounds through the post in march and payed 60pounds for his phone bill.he always said he would pay me back but now we have fallen out and i ... (88 words)

She made his life but still the jealously and fear wont go away!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months, he broke up with his ex at the beginning of the year and they have a daughter together. She moved up north with the little girl and he goes up and sees her about twice a week. When we first starting dating they were constanly at each ... (208 words)

For the males... Being a dad, a privelage or problem??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - hello i just wanted a mans opinion, if a man decides to have nothing to do with you if they get you pregnant do they ever think about there child at all or do they have no feelings towards it at all... (42 words)

Ex is giving me the cold shoulder.. What should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - hi i have fallen out with my ex over the fact i am pregnant by him, i feel he is punishing me for something that took two of us.prior to me telling him we were friends but now he completlt ignores me.can he realy change his feelings about me that quick... (51 words)

Self conscious about my body.. Please help??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - I am very self concious about my vons veneris, it's the fatty tissue that covers the pubic bone, above the labia and below the abdomen... mine is very large and it makes me to nervous that i won't let my boyfriend touch me. When i look in a mirror at myself sideways it feels ... (100 words)

Condom makes boyfriend lose it.. What is the problem??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - for the last couple of times me and my boyfriend have tried to have sex its gone wrong. everything is going well then as soon as we get a condom out he loses his erection. why? what can we do?... (40 words)

Girlfriend is being offish.. How can I show her my true feelings??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months now. About 2 months ago, I really upset her. She told me about her previous sexual experience and it freaked me out and I reacted really badly to it and said some really hurtful things. She was mad at me for a week, and then decided ... (256 words)

She's in her 30's and still copies what I wear!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6733 days ago

22 May 2006 (F)

- I have a friend who regularly copies things I buy or wear. Or tings I buy for my child or house. She picks up on things I say then a day later she tells people my story as if it happened to her. I wouldn't mind, but we are both in our thirties! I have tried approaching her ... (80 words)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - hi,i like a guy at school,he asked me out because i made him aware that i like him 2 days before.We hugged etc n things seemed to be going great,but that same night he told me he wasnt ready for commitment and that hes really sorry.he also told my frnd before hand.. "i like ... (91 words)

Internet guy is being coldish.. What should I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - i met him in a textchat room, we got on so well, we exchanged mobile numbers. that was nearly a year and a half ago now. we texted and chatted every day, then we started phoning each other. We arranged to meet up several times but then there would be some problem on his side ... (363 words)

Phobia is ruining my confidence.. Any advice??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - Let's just say i have somewhat of a phobia around people. I can talk to them, but i never know what to say and the conversation always ends weirdly... I'm trying to get this guys attention, but most guys wouldn't take a second look at me... how can i become more confidant and ... (63 words)

How do i stop being such a flirt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - Help! I am a flirt!. I have been in a relationship with my b/f for almost 7 years. I never ever used to flirt the way I do, when we go out and drink alcohol I turn into a big flirt @ it makes me feel sick, I am so disgusted with myself. I am 25. I think that some of the reason ... (180 words)

Is it ment to be? or am i just setting myself up to get hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - I was in prison for 4 years and had a pen-pal that was also in prison, we lost contact about halfway through my time. We both went to a transitional center (a place you get a job and re-enter society) I got out before he did and kept the job I had gotten while at the center. ... (124 words)

My ex wants me back but i'm with someone new, should i take him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6789 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years broke up with me 3 months ago. I was quite upset as we had been through a lot together and the reasons I was given were not things that could be changed in any way. I decided though, that I would not waste too much time fretting and perhaps it was t... (288 words)

how do i trust him again after he cheated on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - how should i go about re learning to trust my boyfriend of 2 years after he cheated on me, he apoligised and we are back together but i still get nervous when ever he goes anywhere and just want to be able to believe him and trust him and not feel like he is always doing ... (61 words)

Every problem we have he makes my fault!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6789 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - I have been with my bf for quite a while now and every problem that seems to arise he always puts it out on me! for example i asked him to not ever do drugs around me because it hurts me to see him do it and he promised that he would never. well yesterday he did and i started ... (129 words)

is it ok to flirt with other guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6789 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - I have a bf you see but sometimes i catch myself flirting with guys alot. is it ok to flirt? I mean i know i would be ticked off if he did the same but still its so hard sometimes!... (40 words)

His hardly talking to me and i'm really worried,advice needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

22 May 2006 (F)

- Hi, my bf and i have been together almost 2 and a half years, over the weekend he suddenly got this bad additude and will now he hardly talks to me or anything, im really worried, i dont know what iv done wrong. It started when he was bored on the sunday afternoon, when he gets... (193 words)

My arranged marriage is looming, but I still love my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6789 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - I seriously have a big problem. I'm a Muslim. I was arranged to be married. Basically I have a marriage certificate but didn't do the wedding. It's in 2 months but I've known him for 5 years almost, but not personally. He's a kinda a family friend and now I'm almost marri... (151 words)