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writes: Can someone help me work out my gay ex. He left me for another lad who is 33 and has just come out of a divorce and has two kids.I recently met my ex and he said things were not working out, saying he was being made to feel second best.Anyway, after our meeting he stunned me by kissing me and later rang me.He called me a few days later and again saying we should meet. On the night before the meeting - which was to be a Saturday night out - he texted to say he was still coming.But on the day we were supposed to meet I simply could not get hold of him. He left all my calls go to answer-machine and has not been in touch since. I have found it all really odd and difficult to cope with. He never came up with an excuse for not turning up. He simply did not show. I have texted him to ask if everything is OK and he has not replied. I am really puzzled and don’t know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2006): Simply don't do anything.
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reader, Michaelasgerrard +, writes (18 May 2006):
just ask him where he was i am sure if he is a real man he will tell you or just simply tell him how you feel about him not coming to the meeting. i know how you feel i am gay too but just talk it over but never split up with him over a meeting.
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reader, Aunt Audrey  +, writes (18 May 2006):
 I remember your previous posts on this, and it seems you are still hoping for a reconciliation.....
This guy plays you for a fool, he says jump, you say how high! It's time for you to move on, stop living with false hope, as much as I hate to say it this guy will just use you and make you unhappy. Giving you hope and then letting you down without so much as an apology is not the behaviour of someone that cares that much!
Try and put the relationship you had with him behind you once and for all and move on, find someone that has some respect for you, and next time this guy calls tell him to go to hell!
Good luck.x
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