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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He manipulates, insults and ignores me, advice needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - Hey. This might be long. I need advice on how to be stronger, and more emotionally firmer in my long distance relationship coz its very special, and has so much potential,but I'm the one doing the chaising, all the calling,the apologising, "for some reason" when i did noth... (815 words)

His nice & we have chemistry but he already has a girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - iv fallen for a guy but,he has a girlfriend of 8 years!we have known each other for about 3months and we had instant chemistry. he was honest with me from the start and is always sayin he doesnt want me to get hurt. i think its to late for that.im starting to think about hi... (139 words)

She seems interested, should i ask for her number?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (M) - publish this as knowone replied last time. this girl shows me pictures of her pet horse and wont let anone else see the pictures. she glances at me at often smiles when she sees me. i get on well with hre friends and they appear to like me. at the end of the school year last ... (139 words)

Boyfriend pressuring me....should i dump him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - Dear agony aunts, My new boyfriend keeps pressuring me to snog him and to give him blow jobs but i dont want to. Should i dump him?... (29 words)

How to stop picking at my boyfriends bad points.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

17 May 2006 (?)

- Hey I really like this guy but when i'm not with him and thinking about him, all I can think about is all of his bad points. So when i am with him i am put off by him. Is there anyway i could stop doing this?! i need help, it is realy effecting my love life! Thanks... (64 words)

My boyfriend talks to this girl he dated, Is he cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - I have a hard time deciding if he was cheating with this girl: He told me from the beginning--he speaks to two girls..One he has known since his pre-teens and never went out with. And another--a girl he went out with--he said it ended mutually and he said it was because they... (490 words)

I want a baby & my husband is terminally ill

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - WHEN I was 17 I had an affair with one of my dad's friends who left his wife for me. We married and agreed not to have kids because he already had three and we couldn't really afford one of our own. But I am now 37 and my husband is in his 60s and terminally ill. I long f... (114 words)

I'm 14 and a boy keeps asking me out but joking...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - i am 14. what does it mean when a boy asks you out but sounding as if he is joking? i mean keeps on and on asking but in a really joky way and it is so obviouse that he is joking cos he does it infront of the whole class! is he just trying to get people to laugh at him to get ... (71 words)

Aged 15 and never had a boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - hi i'm 15 and i have never had a boyfriend and no-one as ever asked me out before! why not? whats wrong with me? i am average looking. does anyone fancy me or has anyone EVER fancied me????? are the boys just shy to ask me out? (i have asked people out)plz reply... (53 words)

Reconciling with my girlfriend, what do we tell her family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (M) - I'm working on trying to reconcile with my girlfriend whom I have dated for the past year. We both are divorced and have kids. When she broke up with me, she told her family that she was no longer seeing me. What can she/we say to the family that we are trying to work things ... (63 words)

I fancy a shy girl...how do I make my move

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (M) - Hi. I have posted about this before but thought I'd give an update and would like some more opinions as I'm so confused! To recap, There's a girl who lives near me who knows I like her cos I sent her a card, she was always nice and smiley towards me if I passed her in the ... (312 words)

Once a cheater, always a cheater?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - I met a guy four yrs ago whilst travelling and he moved countries to be with me. We had a really great relationship and enjoyed being together and were very comfortable and talked alot. After 2yrs of living together,i had a miscarriage and he confessed after this that he had ... (278 words)

Hot boyfriend cooling off

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - Hello,I met this guy who seemed so super. We went out on a couple of dates. He said that he'd fallen for me in a big way and I couldn't understand the connection that we'd made so quickly. He has done all the chasing.I now find that the phone calls and texts seem to have ... (60 words)

I'm in love with my cousin, but how do we tell the family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - well, me and my boyfriend, who is also my 1st cousin, have been together well over a year now, totally in love - the full works. At first I was sceptical; hmm hes my cousin, but then i realised, I love him, I want to spend the rest of my life with him! Engaged we are, ... (324 words)

Sex whilst on a period... what do you think?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - do all guys hate/dont mind sleeping with a girl when she has her period? im always extra horny at this time and although i try to not let anything happen i cant resist my boyfriends roaming hands at this time, i even forget its that time off the month and dont tell him, i j... (155 words)

He masterbates over Adolf Hitler!!! What can I do???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6759 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - Apologies for the length of this but I need to get it off my chest. I'm 25 and have been with my boyfriend who's 29 for 4 years now. Recently he's become addicted to looking at websites on Adolf Hitler on the Internet; even masturbating over pictures of him and participatin... (219 words)

How do you know if you've found the right partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (M)

- How do you know if you've found the right partner? Ages ago I went out with this girl (my first girlfriend) and to begin with we kept texting each other but after half term when we didn't see each other for a week as she went back home, I felt it was one way and I was doing all ... (116 words)

She's finally leaving her husband, but there's a friend of hers I'm worried about.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for four months now. It's a very complicated situation and I am trying to make sense of it and to be sure that I am on the right path with her. We are both in our 30s and have had some experience and disappoinments i... (523 words)

Been having affair... can't keep on sharing but don't want to give him up! :( help me please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - ive been having an affair with an attached man for over a year now and i love him and he says he loves me but he wont leave his girlfriend because he has 2 children and he wont walk away from them. he says he loves her too but if he didnt have kids he would be with me ... (108 words)

Caught him chatting to an ex and looking at teenage porn...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - ive been with my partner a very long time and we have 3 children together.recently i caught him lookking at teenage porn on the web.he denied it then admitted it.hes also been chatting up an ex of his.were each others first.im 21 hes 27 what do i do?i no longer trust him.... (52 words)

Why does my ex keep turning me down when I ask her out (as friends).. ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (M) - Stayed friends with my ex, everything is going really well, but there's just one problem... Everythime I ask her to do something or go out to a movie, just to be friends, she always says no... I dont know if its because she scared or something but it seems like she's scare... (104 words)

He goes out with his mates EVERY Friday and Saturday while I have to stay home looking after the dog...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - we have been together for 4 years and both love eachother we have a lovely home and everthing. he likes going out with his mates every sat and friday and i dont even get an invite and when i ask him he says i should stay in look after the dog and i get so bored jelous and ... (128 words)

Really like this girl.. How do I ask her out??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (M) - this girl shows me pictures of her pet horse and wont let anone else see the pictures. she glances at me at often smiles when she sees me. i get on well with hre friends and they appear to like me. at the end of the school year last year we played some games and she always made ... (130 words)

I slept with my boyfriend's brother and cant keep my hands off of him!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - i am 23 and boy friend is24 we have been together for3 yaers he is got a brother who is currently staying with us who i had a chemistry and lkast week after a drink when my boyfriend was a sleep we had sex in my bedroom and now we cant keep our hands off each other i love my ... (97 words)

I deleted numbers from my husband's cell and he is telling me to stop snooping.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6763 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - My hubby has some of my friends home phone and cell numbers programmed into his cell phonne book. I know he has not called them from his cell, as I get the bill and he really never has a chance to "DO" anything as he is always with me or at work. I erased them and when I ... (102 words)

Have I any hope with friendly crush??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - I've liked this guy for 9 months now, he knows I like him and about three months ago he messaged me and told me that he thinks it would be best if we just stayed friends. Ever since he said that, we haven't spoken to each other, and every time I get anywhere near him my stomach ... (98 words)

Will people get hurt if I go out with my uni-boyfriend who wants me but "has a girlfriend"... ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - Hi, I have already posted a message before about me meeting a guy who i am really attracted to and he is also attracted to me-only problem is he has a girlfriend, but he has mentioned that the only reason he is with her is because they have been together for such a long time ... (139 words)

I'm still having biker-boyfriend worries... Am I paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - My b/f is away for a week at a biker rally with friends. He is sharing a room with a friend. I have the hotel number and everything--is this suspicious? I call the hotel room and the person he is staying with answers and i ask him for my b/f and he says who is this..and in ... (227 words)

She is still in contact with her ex,is she cheating or am i over reacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6759 days ago

17 May 2006 (M) - I'm worried that my girlfriend may be cheating on me with her ex. The story is basically this; She went out with him for a short period of time about 5 years ago (possibly more) but broke up with him because he treated her badly (I'm not sure of the specifics). He's a d... (602 words)

Pregnant and have not had a orgasm in 8 weeks, whats wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - i've been pregnant for 26 weeks and i havent had an orgasm in 8 weeks, what is the problem?... (19 words)

Should I continue trying to rebuild friendship with the girl whose heart I broke... ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (M)

- PART I - This may sounds like a cookie-cutter break up but the last chapter on “friendship” is still writing itself. My question is: Should I drop my pen? I decided to end the six month relationship – a first for both of us - back in February and I knew it was going to bre... (558 words)

Are guys always rude or is it me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6763 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - I guy I was dating has stood me up twice and when I call to see what happen, he is now avioding my calls and emails. I what to know if it was something I did to or is that just how guys are RUDE!... (45 words)

Things where great but now he won't return my calls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - I had been talking to this guy for about two months, things I thought were going great. Now he doesn't call and when I call it goes to voice mail and he will not return my e mails etiher what up with that?... (45 words)

His going overseas & i am not invited,is there any point staying together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - i posted recently about my boyfriend going overseas, and I thought some of you maybe see the whole picture, or were a little harsh. i guess it sounds bad, but he has said he cares about me deeply, knows he will really miss me etc, but the idea of me going with him and us ... (207 words)

I have zero confidence, advice needed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (F)

- Hey All, Well my boyfriend - well exboyfriend sorta, said that he loved me (uh-uh) but wanted to see other people. which i have to say knock my confidences alot, i feel like i've gone striaght back to square one. That was over a month again now, so when this guy came to ch... (155 words)

Hoping we will reunite,but scared i will never see him again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (F)

- My ex bf and I broke up about 5 months ago becuz he had 2 move back home and leave our uni. We both still really cared about eachother but we figured it would be best 2 end it becuz of the distance. We still k.i.t. with instant messages and the other day he told me that he ... (267 words)

family,studies and boyfriend are really getting to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6763 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - eugh god just everything is getting to me atm: 1) a member of my familly that im really close to is dying 2) ive turned 18 now so my dad's stopped making his CSA payments which means that moneys really tight atm as our annual incomes only about £9000 anyway, plus all of ... (258 words)