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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I get jealous of his female friends, but he says he doesn't care about my boy mates!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - OK, now this is going to sound stupid but it really does affect me. I am very jealous of all my boyfriend's female friends. I know he wouldn't cheat, but some of them he has got off with and whenever he mentions them it gets to me. To make it worse, when I explain this to ... (293 words)

I didn't like his games and finished it, so do I tell him how I really feel before he goes to Australia?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I met this guy who I work with and fell for him big time, but he's a real 'lad'. He was messing me about a bit so for my 'pride' I finished it. Now he's moving to Australia in a couple of weeks and I can't get him out of my head. Apparently he's got a new girl already.... (106 words)

I want to stop thinking about my ex. It's been a month and he's still stuck in my head!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6754 days ago

24 May 2006 (F)

- I'm trying to get over my ex so badly but doesn't seem to be working. It's only been over a month but feels like forever. I've try to get my ex back but he's determined to see other people. We were on talking terms but yet again hes began ignoring me and I'm unsure (think he... (340 words)

Split from my girlfriend, and lost all my mates! What now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (M) - I've just split from my gf and now realise that I ditched all my mates for her. I called them but they've all got new lives and don't want to know. I'm 18 and have no mates or social life. I'm no good at making new friends either! What shud I do, Cupid? cheers.... (57 words)

I just want to have fun, but I hate my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I feel so down all the time lately. I have no mates. I am doing rubbish academically. I feel so low all the time and lonely. I'm young and supposed to be having fun, but my life at the moment is crap. I have no confidence whatsoever. I hate who I am, I really do. Please do... (115 words)

Feels like guys are just after sex! I don't trust them any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I have been messed about by several lads in the past, who have basically just used my gullibility and niceness to get me in bed. Now I don't trust any guy whatsoever. I feel like they are all just after one thing!! How do I tell if they are genuine?... (52 words)

How could he say he loved me, then just go and sleep with another woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - Hey there, I feel really down. I finished with my boyfriend last week who I loved so so much. I finished with him because I'm mega insecure and I was driving myself crazy worrying that he didn't like me!!! Anyway he told me he loved me and he'd never felt this way about an... (176 words)

Am I stuck in the dreaded "Friendship Zone" or do I have a chance with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6754 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - Not sure where I am with this guy who I’ve been close friends with for 5 months. I’d say I’m too cautious with men, and in some ways would like to overcome it. However, I want to know if this guy is a player, is confused, or being a gentleman. He sends me wonderful messages... (755 words)

Can I trust my fiancee not to cheat if we get married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6754 days ago

24 May 2006 (M) - Hi...I'm due to be married in August to a beautiful kind and hardworking lady. We have dated over the last 4.5 years and over that time the only problems we have ever had centre around me being able to trust her. She cheated on me with an ex and confessed in an email I saw that ... (280 words)

We're both shy and neither of us knows how to take the Next Step from making out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend (almost 19) and I (19), have been official for about a month now, but have basically been together for about three months (he was just too shy to ask me out). We are very alike in personality, quiet and shy, but do love each other. We are both virgins and both... (184 words)

Feel like I'm rubbish at chatting up girls. Need some tips!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6754 days ago

24 May 2006 (M) - I have two problems: the first being I really like this girl but I'm rubbish at talking to girls, so have you got any good tips? Have you got any good tips for asking people out and flirting with them?... (40 words)

Can my boyfriend enjoy our first-time sex even if I'm not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6747 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - Losing my virginity to a mate/ex bf in a few days. Thing is, this is new to me and not to him, will he still enjoy it even if I'm not? I'm expecting the whole pain/bleeding thing that most women get first time so I doubt i'll enjoy it.... (49 words)

Don't want to look too keen to see my ex, but I really want to chat!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - My ex and I may get back together. I told him I love him a few weeks back, but I don't anymore. Because of this I don't want to come across as too interested, but I really miss him and want to chat, even though I saw him on Monday. Should I call him or wait for him to contact ... (61 words)

My BF will turn 18 in a few months, and I'm still 14. Is this OK?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - Hey I'm 14 and my bf is 17. He thought iIwas older and only found out my age after he said he liked me. When he found out he went weird but said that he still likes me but wants to take it slow. In a few months he will be 18. Should I stay with him and will this be OK?... (65 words)

She started crying when we discussed our relationship. Normal, or weird?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (M) - Earlier today whilst lying with my girlfriend (Been with her 5 n a half months) she suddenly spoke about how paranoid she is. She said that she has been really paranoid about me whenever I don't feel in the mood for lots of kissing and hugs and all that. She told me that she ... (175 words)

Should I tell this girl how I feel about her on our first date

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (M) - Cupid, please answer my question. I haven't seen a girl who im really close to in a few months now and im going pictures with her next week. I feel that i actually love her and i want to tell her i missed her and that i really like her but i don't no if i should, do you think ... (85 words)

My husband has a low sex drive, help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6749 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I am very frustrated. I have been married only 9 months and my husband seems uninterested in sex. I am 26 and he is 28. We have no children yet.Our relationship was long distance for a year before the wedding and we only saw each other once a month. During those visits he never ... (292 words)

Should I be getting married when I still think about my ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - Hello, I have an advice question for you if you ever have any extra time. I'm going crazy and would fully appreciate it. I am engaged to be married in less than two months to a wonderful man and I want to be married whole-heartedly. However, I still frequently miss my ... (287 words)

We need post-natal sex tips

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - Me and a friend have recently had children and are experiencing similar problems regarding sex lives, and lack of. Do you have any advice? including medication/food...... (26 words)

I really like my friend but I think I am his second choice

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I am moving really close with a good friend of mine. We have kissed a couple times but nothing more cause we are not together. This has been going on for about 4 months now and I really like him. I can't imagine being with anyone besides him. He once said that we are ... (230 words)

How do you get over heart break

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6754 days ago

24 May 2006 (M) - Whats the best way to heal after a breakup, and realise that It was not your fault and to move on with life. and not hurt as much. Is there a process? i know everyone is different and their reaction is different, however i just want to lock up this pain and throw it away an... (90 words)

How do I find out if this guy likes me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

24 May 2006 (F)

- i haven't had a boyfriend since i was 8. i like this guy and i think he likes me we text each other all the time but i know he would be too shy to ask me out all my friends say to ask him out but im still unsure of it. i also think it might not be that he's shy just that he ... (86 words)

How do i tell if they fancy me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6754 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - What are the signs of a teenage boy fancying you? i am 15 and i want to know if anyone fancies me. just wondering how i could find out? cos i haven't got a clue what to look for to tell if they fancy me or other people. thanks for advise... (52 words)

How do I get her back ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

24 May 2006 (M) - i have been with my girlfriend for 3 years and we decided to split up for a while due to use arguing all the time so after that things were going well then one day she said shes not happy no more and wants to split for good what do i do i love her with all my heart.... (59 words)

Should I Marry my teenage sweetheart ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6754 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend since i was 17 i am now 23. We are due to get married next year but recently i have been having feelings for someone else. I have met some new friends and we have been going out more than usual and i'm having a really good time. I have found ... (110 words)

I hate leading this double-life but really dont know what to do!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

24 May 2006 (M) - I'm in a relationship with my girlfriend of 5years and have a beautiful daughter aged 3. I'm 22 she is 22. The problem is that our relationship is gone stale.i find it hard to be affectionate to her eg.kissing cuddling up playing with her hair ect. I have recently started ... (160 words)

Should I go for a younger guy ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I am 27 and have gotten really close to one of my brother friends - the only problem is he is only 17. We get on so well and he would be my ideal guy if he was older, he says he wants to be with me and the age thing shouldn't matter but I am confused now? Do you think I should ... (67 words)

Should I call my Spanish Guy ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6754 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - i just back from ibiza,while i was out there on the last night i met this spanish guy,he was 25 i', 43 we got on well but he couldnt talk much english.he gave me his number,now back in the uk i'm thinking should i give him a ring or not and what should i say.then he might not ... (65 words)

I am getting married but everyone I know hates the groom

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (F)

- I am tired of everyone telling me my partner is not good enough for me. When I say everyone, I mean everyone... my best freind, all my friends, my family, my cousins, my work colleagues, my exs' even !!! I know he is not the best looking guy on earth (I am considered hot-p... (220 words)

In an on-off relationship with a man who doesnt love me, help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6754 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - hi there, iv been in an on off relationship for the past 12 years , i think i still love him (not sure im a bit confused) although we get on well most of the time hes not very interested in me , if i am enthusiastic or happy about anything he just acts like im invisable or that ... (207 words)

He is 22 and feels he is too young for our relationship to work

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I am 24 and my partner of 3 1/2 years is 22. We have not long ago moved into our second property and within the last few months grown further apart. Last week, he left to go back to his parents for time to think. He says he feels that he is missing out on his youth but still ... (139 words)

Advice says I should stop before it gets out of hand...But I think it has already! Help

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I posted a question about an ex lover of 26 years ago getting in touch with me , I am happily married have been for 21 years, and get this e-mail from my ex . I have read the replys from crying eyes, cos you are telling me to stop before it gets out of hand... I think it ... (137 words)

My husband was using online dating sites but he got caught

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - while i was taping an account name into my computor a list of previous names typed in on my computor came up, i had to double take because a porno/horny type name came up with my husbands name in it, i instantly kicked him out but he denyed knowing anything about it , so i went ... (427 words)

Difficulty sleeping next to my partner!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - Is there a problem if a couple can't sleep next to each other (as in both parties remain half-awake or sleep very little)? Will it go away with time?... (29 words)

I think he may be holding me back... How to proceed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I`ve been with my boyfriend for three years and we have a beautiful daughter together.The thing is I don`t feel like he`s the one for me anymore.I am a young mother and I have alot of goals for myself and my daughter,and I don`t think that I will reach any of them if I stay ... (60 words)

Did he take advantage of me? My patience never paid dividends because we've split up now...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (M) - I have a question to ask about breaking up? I was in a gay sexually active relationship, where we made love, and did most things that any sexually gay active couple would do, although I was the one most experimented on. My partner has eczema on his skin, and I've seen it befor... (229 words)

Can I patch things up with my ex on this holiday away we have planned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (M) - Hi, im really after some advice. About 3 months ago my girlfriend ended our relationship of 2 years because of my drinking habit. I used to drink just about every night after work and had roughly 4/5 cans each night. She told me pleanty of times to stop yet I just couldnt go ... (245 words)

My lover wanted to be with me for all time, then decided that he's straight!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (M) - Dear Agony aunts, I need some advice and thoughts. I was in a gay long distance relationship, where we had plans on getting married. We were together for two years, and through out these two years we were devoted to each other. When we were together he was all over me, and... (330 words)

Twenty one years on, and my ex wants to get back in touch...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I need help. I'm happily married for 21 years and out of the blue I get an e-mail from my first love. He lives in Australia now and is also married buts wants to keep in contact. This has put a huge strain on me, cause he has woken up feelings that have been buried for 26 ... (80 words)

Shouldn't there be more to our relationship..?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - All my boyfriend wants to do is make out all the time. what should I do? ... (19 words)

All we do it argue and I miss our closeness!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6756 days ago

24 May 2006 (M) - i really love my wife , but we just dont get along anymore . we argue all the time and dont make love anymore at all . could it be that we had a child 11 months ago ,and thats what takes up her time constantly ? . i try to help as much as i can but my wife is always tired and ... (84 words)

Sex was a horrific experience but now he won't try it again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - hi, i hope someone can help i love my boyfriend very much as he does me but we cant have sex when we attempted to have intercourse his foreskin burst in 2places the blod loss was horrific he says it cos he's to big and i'm tight now he wont attempt it again. please help 21 f. x... (58 words)

I have a crush on my best friend but he already has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6750 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I have a crush on my best friend. We just started becoming close and we both like eachother- its obvious. He does subtle things to be around me and never passes up an oppertunity to touch me in someway (innocent, of course!). We are always together and forever flirting and ... (120 words)

falling for my ex girlfriends twin!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (M) - hey. long story short, me, my now ex girlfriend, and her twin sister all live at uni together. me and the twin have been hanging out a lot recently. i think she has feelings for me, we flirt quite a lot. i can't tell if i'm attracted to her because it's my ex's twin, or becau... (85 words)

Could my friend's fiance have gone from gay to straight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - Just a question. Is it possible for a gay man to ever truly fall in love with a woman? My friend has been dating a man with a homosexual past--she says he has at times been attracted to women but not strongly. They are talking marriage now. Do you think she is marrying ... (83 words)

The sex isn't great and I'm not sure I'm in love...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - Hi, my boyfiend and i have been living together for 2 years. Our sex life is not happening- he's not really interesting. I like him a lot but feel I'm not in love with him though I'm not sure what "in love" really is. Everything else is fine. Should I stay or go?... (57 words)

Do I love this guy, or just like him? And what's his problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6756 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I have someone I 'see' but am confused as to how much I feel for him or he feels for me. He is lovely but tends to keep his distance. (I see him every couple of weeks but we talk/txt every week). I have been seeing him for about 6 months now, and whenever he has had a bit to... (157 words)

I've been having sex with the band teacher and I'm not excited about it. Should I stop going out with him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I am 16 right now and I have my own car, OK. Well I have band class and our band teacher asked me if I would come to his house after school for something. Well I trusted him because he is a family friend. Anyways I drove over to his house the other day and well we were tal... (288 words)

He loves me, but goes looking for unfulfilling sex with other girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6756 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - Why is it that when I get really intimate and close with my bf he goes all strange and starts contacting other girls? I'm sure that he loves me, he's told me so, but I know by the things that he does for me too it's obvious that he loves me. So why is it that when things... (218 words)