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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Lost in the constant arguing!!

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9 May 2006 (F) - I am at the end, i dont know what direction im going in. We argue about how we bring up the children our sex life is out the window if he gets it hes happy but to me theres more to it. I am on the verge on calling it a day if i say i do not agree with him in a conversa... (91 words)

I planned to propose but then she told me she had feelings for a friend!

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9 May 2006 (M) - I'm 24 and have been with my girlfriend for almost six years now. On our five year anniversary of being a couple, I had planned to propose to her. I CHICKENED OUT! I don't know why....I knew I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her, she had talked to me quite a bit about ... (343 words)

What are the signs she likes me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

9 May 2006 (M) - I would like some female advice. I really like this girl in my year at school. We used to go out a couple of years ago for a few months but then stopped because everyone in the year found out. One of her friends asked me if i was still interested in her but i lied by saying no. ... (198 words)

My emotions have taken over me and I'm too attached to this guy - can I change and if so, how?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6766 days ago

9 May 2006 (F) - Hello everyone, For the first time in my life I found a man I want to commit to for the rest of my life. We've been together for the past 3 years, and every bit of it has been amazing. He is primarily me best friend. He has taken me away from a broken past and mended my wo... (282 words)

I always say the wrong things when my gf cries!!

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9 May 2006 (M) - My girlfriend is often wishing I could be there for her on the phone when shes crying, I always say the wrong things when she cries over a movie on the phone what should I say?... (36 words)

My girlfriend got genital warts, but wants to go back to no condoms, what do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

9 May 2006 (M) - Hello. My girlfriend and I have been together for a year. A month ago she told me she had been to the hospital and been diagnosed with genital warts. I was shocked and scared and we went though a tough period where I found it hard to trust her (the incubation period for such an ... (269 words)

Degree help needed...

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9 May 2006 (F)

- Hiya I want to be an Journalist in New York or an English Teacher over here [England] after I leave university. However I want to go to university over here. What GCSE options, A levels etc would I need to take? How long will I need to go to university for? Which d... (120 words)

I feel like I would make them happier...

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9 May 2006 (F) - ok dont know how to read these signals just got to know someone who lives near me got chatting had a laugh seemed to know and remeber me from a long time ago in a bar i used to work in. i then find out they are seeing someone who they work with and i also know . however ... (100 words)

Why does my workmate advance then back-off again??

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9 May 2006 (F) - Hello, I started my new job in advertising 3 months ago and at work there is this one guy who just acts really peculiar. I have talked to him on a number of occasions. He also works in advertising and several weeks ago we were both working on similar projects and so I lent him... (243 words)

Should I get back together with this boy or just deal with the pain of breakup?

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9 May 2006 (F) - I need some advice urgently im so confused!... ok where to start from im a 16 year old girl.. have been going out with a 16 yr old boy for the past 5 months.. been through a lot together...such as him taking an overdose, my abusive family,we both cheated, his home and school ... (277 words)

I'm thinking he wants me back, but I could be wrong. Any advice?

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9 May 2006 (F) - Argh! Please save me! I have no idea what to do with myself. my bf broke up with me in January, and i was completely and utterly in love with him, more than i've ever been in my life. He's been with this other girl since we broke up, and i've been severely depressed, ... (324 words)

I like my mates gf, what do I do??

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9 May 2006 (M) - I like my old best mates gf, but when he first started we was good friends but he started lying to me and than we fell out but the main thing is i got really strong feelings for his girlfriend and she knows it but i dont know wot to do with my feelings and what to do next?... (59 words)

How do I tell him he's not the one?

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9 May 2006 (F) - OK i have a problem. I have been with my boyfriend who is 32 and I am 20 for almost 10 months now. He is a great guy who i truly care about and he has done nothing wrong and has only been truly good to me. He is such a nice guy but I just dont feel it anymore. I dont see myself ... (156 words)

Should I ask if he wants to see me again?

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9 May 2006 (F) - ive been talking to this soldier while he was in iraq and since hes been back ive have seen him twice and slept the night with him.People tell me not to text him and let him come to me but i find it so hard and wish to and twice he has made the first move. Is it a good idea to ... (74 words)

How can I get this older boy to notice that I'm alive?

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9 May 2006 (F) - hi, im 15 and in year 10. i have this huge crush on a guy in year 13, and he is 18. he doesnt even know i exist. how can i get him to notice me???? im sick of being ignored.... (41 words)

How can I be sure if this guy likes me?

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9 May 2006 (F)

- I've liked this guy for ages, and I have the impression he might like me too, the trouble is I can't be sure and I don't want to take the risk if it turns out he doesn't feel the same. How do I know if he does genuinely like me?... (50 words)

I was so close to asking her out, but someone else got to her first.....

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9 May 2006 (M) - i was gonna ask out this girls but then she went out with some other guy like the day i was goin 2 ask her wat can i do so close... (37 words)

I've fallen in love with my wife's sister!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

9 May 2006 (M) - I am married for the past 5 years with no kids. I love my wife but recently I have this feeling that really make me guilty. I beginning to develop strong feeling towards my sister-in-law, who is now a divorcee and have two kids. I know this is not good but I just can't help it. ... (138 words)

I think I still love him, but he's so far away, what should I do?

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9 May 2006 (F)

- I am an journalist who moved to New York from the North of England 7 years ago, when I was 19. At the time I split from my boyfriend, who didn't want me to leave. But I couldn't miss the chance I'd waited for it all of my life. For the first year in New York I missed him ... (250 words)

My friends don't really approve of my boyfriend, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6768 days ago

9 May 2006 (F)

- i have just started going out with a lovely boy whom I like very much!he's the sweetest, nicest guy ever. BUT,we hang in different groups in school, he is kind of with the "outcasts" (not my choice of word), which I have no problem with but my friends think otherwis... (104 words)

He says he wouldn't make me happy, how can I get him to get back with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6760 days ago

9 May 2006 (F) - Is love enough? I went for a drink with my ex last night after a month apart, after he finished our five year relationship. He said he still loves and fancies me but doesn't think he'll make me happy in the future so there is no point giving it another chance now. Before we ... (190 words)

I don't feel sexy around my fiance anymore, what can we do?

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9 May 2006 (F) - I have been engaged for 2 and half years and with my fiance for 6 and half years. The problem is I have a really low sex drive (I mean once every 5 months). He is very understanding and as we both work long hours and are tired alot anyway the subject doesn't come up that often. ... (89 words)

Is there a way to get rid of the alcohol sent? Please let me know!

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9 May 2006 (F)

- I am a responsible 18 year old girl who drinks occasionally, but my parents don't approve. I try not to drink much either. Tomorrow is my last day at school and there will be a beach party to celebrate and I'd like to be able to drink but because of my religion I am not ... (92 words)

My partner is emailing other women!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6741 days ago

9 May 2006 (F) - my partner 34 whom i have lived with for 5 yrs has been emailing another woman. i found this out when i looked at his emails. (he never told me)i confronted him and he confessed to emailing her for the past 3mths however insists that its just friendly banter. However iv also ... (118 words)

We broke up, but I don't want it to be like this forever, what can I do?

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9 May 2006 (F) - I don't know whether to get in contact with my ex. I broke up with him on Thursday but then realised i'd made a mistake and asked him back on Saturday. He said that there wasn't much time left so he doesn't want to (in 5 weeks, i leave uni for the summer and next year i'm in ... (246 words)

I can't tell if he likes me, what can I do?

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9 May 2006 (F) - plz reply and confused :S? me and this lad have been flirting, he is going out with one of my m8's, i set them up n i feel stupid for doing it, he still sneakely touches my waste n my arm and stuff but i don't know whether it means anything he's told me a couple of times he ... (137 words)

He always threatens me with a break-up which he knows I don't want. What should I do?

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9 May 2006 (F) - What does one do when they are in a loving relationship, but almost all the love is one sided, all the little special things happen because the one partner is the only one doing anything special. I'm in a relationship where I am doing all the work, and the moment I complai... (208 words)

I want to marry this guy, but my parents don't exactly approve. What can I do?

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9 May 2006 (F) - i am in love with this i have know for 8yrs. we both want to get married to each other. his family is fine with the same, but mine is a bit upset, firstly because my sister had a love marriage and even though the guy is nice, but he really doesnt respect my parents. so thay are ... (109 words)

This guy does drugs, is that okay or should I move on?

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9 May 2006 (F) - i've met this really great guy and we get on really well, he's good looking, funny, in a band...but...he does drugs, not sure exactly what...'shrooms n hash i think. Im not saying that i don't go out and get drunk but drugs are different. Do you think its okay that he does ... (59 words)

I don't think I'm in love with my husband and want my lover back...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6770 days ago

9 May 2006 (F) - confused about my marriage and my lover i had an affair with a guy at work whose fancied me for 3 years. Cant explain how it all started but we ended up telling eachother how we felt about one another, we kissed, spent the night together. nothing seedy - very romantic an... (317 words)

I may be pregnant. How much for an abortion.... And would I need to tell my mom?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

9 May 2006 (F) - I'm 14 and the weekend just gone me and my boyfriend both had sex for the first time, Stupidly we didnt use a condom but he said he pulled out in time. We went to a clinic the next day and got an after morning pill, Its been 2 days and im late for my period and really worried. ... (80 words)

It hurts me that my bf doesn't involve me in his life. His friends seem to take priority. What should I do?

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9 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend's brother has a baby, and he is so excited and proud of his baby niece, the only way I get to see pictures is when I ask, but to his other friends he sends them constantly, and they're constantly saying how cute she is, and it hurts me that I'm his girlfriend, and ... (123 words)

I'm 35, married but I still feel hurt because my father is so emotionally distant. How do I fix this?

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9 May 2006 (F) - My dad has always been emotionally distant from me. When I got married it got even worst, almost like I wasn't his daughter anymore. He never comes around to see my kids or asks me how I am doing. Everytime I try to reach out to him he pulls away, almost like he can't take it. ... (118 words)

She got fed up with my clubbing and drinking - but now I've given them up how can I win her back?

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9 May 2006 (M) - I am 28.5 yrs old man, (origin - India), I have been living in australia for the past 2 yrs, and will be here for the next 3 more yrs atleast. Last year in October 2005 I met this Lovely lady age: 30, who is a single mum with kids...we fell in love, everything was going so... (546 words)

We had marriage problems and I ended up having an affair. I feel like I'm living a double life. Any advice?

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9 May 2006 (?) - hi guys I need some help here. I know that most of you are going to judge me and call me names but I'm ready for it. I am 23/24 and I've been married for 2 1/2 years. I have no kids. 2 years ago me and husband moved to another country were I knew nobody...no friends.... (690 words)

My ex wants back in my life but I'm playing it cool. Should I get in touch?

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9 May 2006 (M) - Just need a little help. Met up with my ex last week after three months apart. He left me for someone else. Anyway, at our meeting he told me things were not working out between them and our meeting ended in him kissing me - which left me stunned. I want my ex back and I am ... (110 words)

I like a friend's sister, but don't think he'll approve, can I change his mind?

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9 May 2006 (M) - I know this girl, she's really cute and nice and she likes me too. But there's a problem: she's my good friend's sister and I don't think he'll allow me to go out with her. What can I do to change his mind?... (47 words)

My boyfriend always argues with me, but I don't want to lose him...what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6762 days ago

9 May 2006 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for two years. And this quote from a song sums up our relationship "For everytime they we shared laughing there were two times that I cried". I really love being with him when he is being good. Hes fantastic and I love him. Hes so funn... (420 words)

We have sex but my girl keeps getting UTI'S, what can be causing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6766 days ago

9 May 2006 (M) - my girl has never had sex, only with me, she keeps getting utis, she went for ultrasounds bladder tests kidney tests, no result, all she does is take pills and for two weeks we dont have sex,? whats the reason, is it because im uncircumsized, what can it be, she is veryyyy ... (96 words)

I was a womanizer, but now I have a girlfriend and everything isn't going alright!

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9 May 2006 (M) - huge changes since i got a girlfriend, my first real girlfriend i use to be a womanizer, they say im nicer now, mentally i guess i got into a slum in basketball, started losing focus in everything especialy school, shes always on my mind and before i got with her i was scared ... (97 words)

My boyfriend told me he was going to get more female friends, but he flirts with them.

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9 May 2006 (F)

- Hi, my bf and i have been together just over 2 years, im 20 and he is 25, my bf does not have many friends and he recently started to study, he told me that he was going to try make some more female friends, i asked why and he said so i can have some friends too as i work full ... (318 words)

I don't want to hurt her, but I feel it's time to break up!

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9 May 2006 (M) - so how do I break up with her? we're both sophomores at different colleges, and have been dating since senior year of high school. i just don't feel the same way as I once did, and i really don't want to hurt her. she's been asking things like what "we" should save up for, and ... (156 words)

I can't tell if she found someone or just doesn't want me. What do you think?

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9 May 2006 (M) - I am confused what my girlfreind really wants. She said she needs a break from us till she can get her life back on track. She seperated from her ex of 12 years, 5 months ago for me. She lost her job and is under alot of stress right now. I haven't talked to her in 2 days now ... (117 words)

I love my man and don't want to lose him, but he needs to let me know what's going on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6766 days ago

9 May 2006 (F) - I am in college and I have been with a guy for a year and 4 months. He is in the airforce, and we are very in love. However, I am unsure as to what to do about a difference between us. If he makes plans for us, I like to know exactly what they are and exactly when they are ... (164 words)

Everyone thinks he likes me, but I'm not so sure... I need help!

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9 May 2006 (F) - i like this one guy and he flirts with me and all but i dont no if he likes me back. i dont no if he is flirting for fun or for real. he looks at me and his friends push me into him and he one time asked me out but i think he was joking. all my friends think he likes me but im ... (74 words)

I've made a list of why they won't work....do you think this is right?

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9 May 2006 (M) - Help! I'm think I'm going nuts. My ex-girlfriend and I have been broken up for almost 3 months and I can' t get her out of my head. Sometimes I'm fine, but today I saw her and her rebound guy together and now I feel like I'm right back where I started. I still love her, and ... (358 words)

I left my ex and went with the nice guy, then the ex almost won again! Did I do right?

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9 May 2006 (F) - hi just wonderin if u could give me some advice? i met my ex 3 years ago it was fine 4 the first few months then the rows started...we rowed most of the time we both didnt trust each other! he had a bad temper on him i knew where it come frm as he had probs at hme which i tried ... (573 words)

I saw a woman masterbating on his computer, but he says the window just popped open!

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9 May 2006 (F) - I walked into my b/f's (whom I live and work with) office to see his MSN messenger window open with his picture on the bottom and the female was using a camera to masterbate for him. He claims that the window justed popped open. He has never given me a reason to doubt him ... (99 words)

She already had one affair and now she texting some other guy...what's going on?

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9 May 2006 (M) - i recently caught my wife having an affair with a married man. i confronted her with it and i think it has stopped. i did speak to this man's wife so i know he has pressure on him. pretty confident its over. however now a month later i notice my wife acting suspicious with her ... (197 words)

He looks at explicit sites on the computer and talks to women, but says he'll stop.....I need help!

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9 May 2006 (F) - I have been in love with and dating a guy for a year and a half. I know that he chats with women in chat room and otherwise on his computer. I also found that he posted dating profiles and profiles on very sexually explicit places. I confronted him and he said he will stop, ... (68 words)

I can't move on with our relationship after he cheated on me...

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9 May 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and father to my son of almost three years, cheated on me with a friend and next door neighbor.he did it several times and lost his job, spent money on her while i fought to pay bills. it's been about four months and I still can't seem to move on with our ... (66 words)

She lied to me about how many guys she was with...what should I do?

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9 May 2006 (M) - My girlfriend is 23 and initially told me she had been with 13 guys before me. We've been dating for about two years and about a month ago, I discovered she was lying to me. First her number moved up from 13 to 15 guys, then 16, 18, 20 and finally 23. I kept asking because I ... (195 words)