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writes: I am a 25 year old gay male. I met my boyfriend who is 23 a year ago and it was a love at first site. Were both each others first loves and both our first serious relationship. Things were going great...or at least I thought they were. We had been having a few little fights and our realtionship was getting a bit too routine (I realize that now), but he just broke up with me out of the clear blue! I mean, we had a wonderful night with dinner and wine at my house, we even had sex then we got in a small argument and he said, "I just cant do this anymore". I mean if I were a chick and he broke up with me after sex, he wouldnt have been leaving without blood shed! It has now been a month since we have been broken up and the first few weeks, I was begging him to take me back, telling him I would do anything to save the relationship, I would change, etc. He told me he just needs time away from the relationship but not to hold out to get back together. He's still is calling me every so often and checking on me. I mean he's obviously wants me in his life but it hurts so bad for him to call and for me to just try to act normal. I have been trying to seem really carefree like I am moving on with my life. Should I continue to act like nothing is wrong even though I am dying to get him back?!
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (19 May 2006):
 Yes this is a good way to behave if you didn't want him back and wanted to show him you don't care. But I have to ask why you would even want him back. This guy has SH*T on you from a great hieght and treated you badly and the chances are if you go back with him he will give you more of the same treatment!! Pretend you dont care and I suggest that you start to believe it as well. Move on and allow yourself to meet somebody who will treat you well and not manipulate you like this guy appears to be doing.
Good luck and have a happy time hunting your new man.
xxx
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