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writes: My husband has a hard time getting an erection sometimes especially under pressure(we're trying to have a baby), like when the doctor has told us go home and "do it" because I'm ovulating. I try to be ok about it but I don't know how to help, and feel useless that I can't arouse him and we can't get pregnant. I know it upsets him a lot but he brushes it off without saying much. How do we deal with this!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2006): Trying to conceive is extrememly stressful and as the saying goes "when your psychy gets iffy, you can't get a stiffy",,,,my advice is to abandon ALL conception talk and to stop trying to have intercourse for the time being. For the next one to two weeks concentrate on JUST pleasuring eachother sexually without intercourse, massages, bubble baths, oral sex, anything without actual penatration. After the pressure is lifted your mans little soldier will be standing at full attention and ready for action. Without the use of birth control the rest will take care of itself, don't discuss his inability to impregnate you as this is obviously to much pressure for him. Just let nature take it's course. Good luck!
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