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writes: OK, I need help. Here it goes...I've been dating this guy for about 8 months now and I really do care for him. I'm moving to a different state and I still want to be with him, but a few months ago my boyfriend went away for a month and I started liking someone else. I never did anything with that guy. I could never cheat on my boyfriend the thought of it made me shake. Anyway we'll call this guy "Josh". He was the sweetest guy. I never denied I had a boyfriend, in fact I made it very clear I had one and I intended on staying with him.Well that month I went out a lot with Josh and a lot of other friends. Rumors started flying (very small town, everyone knows everyone). People started saying I was cheating on my boyfriend. They even went as far as to call him and tell him. None of this which was true.When my boyfriend came back, things were a little weird. The first time we had sex again it didn't feel right and that's where the problems started.He started asking questions about him and I, and would never settle for the truth. I didn't do anything with this guy. Things are going great now between us and he's coming home with me to meet my family and I'm going to meet his. My question is, how do what do I do? What if I move to my new state and find someone there I get along with and I start to like him? I know I love my boyfriend, I really do, but that separation was only for a month this one is for 1 whole year. Help. I could use any advice I can get. I don't want to break up but I don't want that to happen to us again. Reply to this Question
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reader, Zabadack +, writes (7 January 2006):
if you were a guy i'd say keep it in your pants...
what you need more than that? ok dump your BF you obviously don't care about him enough to be faithfull and cheating is worse than dumping
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