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I have confidence problems. I've had many opportunities to ask her out, but failed eyerytime. I need advice!.

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Question - (6 January 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 January 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

Hi,

Im 19 and recently met a girl who i really like. From what i hear from others, she likes me too, but as i have never had a proper girlfriend before, im a little out of practise.

I have a confidence problem. I have had many opportunities to ask her out, but failed at every one. I will be meeting her again tonight hopefully and as i havent asked a girl out for many years now, i was wondering the best way to go about it. I dont want to just get ourselves drunk and land the question on her.

Please, is there anyone that has any advice/tips?

Thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2006):

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Thanks so much! I went out tonight, met her, was chatting to her for ages and asked her. Se said yes. Im so happy, thanks for the advice!

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A female reader, .s. United Kingdom +, writes (6 January 2006):

.s. agony auntthe first thing you need to remember is that we are all able to act confident even if we dont feel it so what you need to do is-first be confident confidence is a big turn on,compliment her make her feel good,keep eye contact so she in a way no's your intentions, then if shes interested in what you say and gives a good responce tell you like her just come out and say it honesty is a really good quality if she rejects you then theres plenty more fish in the sea and if she likes you to then congrats .hope it goes well .s.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2006):

hi, im glad uve found someone!if i were u n its just a thought dnt ask her staright away nor leave it to th end of th night, i would complimeant her on how she looks n what shes wearin, say that you really lik her od u tfeel the same about me? if that answer is a yes then is when uyou should ask will you go out with me! 8=D see what u think of that best of luck

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