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writes: Hello,Right so there's this guy, let's call him Brian. We got talking through a friend of a friend about 9months ago via instant messaging. I really liked him, as more than just a friend. But nothing happened, he had the habit of making me really keen then suddenly going cold. Like he'd text me and i'd text back but woulden't hear back from him again and i finally got over it and moved on. For about 4-5months I didn't really give him much thought, we spoke ocassionally online and I saw him at weekends as we worked at the same bakers, but we were basically on 'small talk' terms. Then at the end of october/november we started talking more, just casually at first just in the evening when we were both online, this slowley growed to the point where we were talking more at work and joking around. We used to talk online most night's and I could feel the feelings id experianced when we first met re-surfacing once more. He said thing's to me that could be taken as more than 'just friendly', such as saying he loved me as a 'joke', saying I was perfect, and making comments about me looking good/sexy. I took all these things to heart and really could start to see myslef falling for him again. But the other night I spoke to him online and he started talking about this girl that he fancies. He seems to really like her, he showed me a picture and she really is pretty. This shocked me as once again he built me up, then let me down so suddenly. Do you think that he really does like me, or just uses me as amusement until something better comes along? I could really fall for him if he gave me the chance and I really just want to know if this is the kind of guy I should be wasting my feelings on or wether there's no point because we're just destined not to be together. Maybe he jsut dosen't like me? Please help, cos all this confusing is making me feel so confused and sick. Thanks so much =) xxxx
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reader, emo_wishes +, writes (6 January 2006):
emo_wishes is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks so much for responding, and so soon aswell =) the thing is this guy is so sweet, we always agree on everything and both seem to be on the same level when it comes to emotions and how we treat others. Thats why it comes as such a shock when he goes cold, maybe i scare him off?
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reader, shania  +, writes (6 January 2006):
 This fella loves himself.I wouldnt waste anymore time on this bloke,he gets a buzz out of you been interested in him.Go and get yourself a fella who will want to be with you and not play these pathetic mind games.He sounds like a bore to me.
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reader, .s. +, writes (6 January 2006):
 you do deserve better try being distant with him let him no what it feels like and move on youl find someone how isnt such a dog. hope it works out .s.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2006): This guy is a "Player"
My advice to you is too steer clear of him romantically and keep things on a freindship basis as you have done in the past with him. This guy is obviously into "head games."
Move on to someone who will give you the respect that you deserve!!
Good Luck Hun!
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