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writes: Ok well I've been dating this girl for about 5 months now. She was 15 and i was 18. She always talked to me through text messages. I was a complete jerk and was never as nice to her as she was to me, but she still loved me for it. Near December I broke it up with her cuz I thought I wanted to see other girls, but now I realize I want her back.I miss her so much and think about her every second. She says she wants me to find another girl to care for, but I want to care for her. And she never sends me messages anymore and whenever I do its like she doesn't even wanna talk.Friends have been telling me she's interested in another guy and it just hurts to know she wants to forget about all our good times. I just wanna show her in some way that I really want her back and that I made a mistake in letting her go.
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reader, latifa +, writes (13 February 2006):
dearie u need to try and fail but dont fail to try,we all think we have some stuff rifured out but then we realize we havent,u should stop regretting this mistake and try to make it better,try to tell her exactly how u feel and put yourself out there.theres a chance she might be feeling the same way or if not at the time she might sit down and think about and remember when she wanted so badly to hear u say those words.u always have to have some positive thoughts but at the same time be ready for a possibility of rejection.
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reader, vivi +, writes (6 January 2006):
i agree with what they all are saying
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2006): Dear, you need to detach yourself from this girl and be willing to give up your expectations about her. She has moved on and you need to accept that. Detachment is crucial because it allows you to let go and move forward. Feelings change and she has chosen a different path. When we love someone, it's hard to step back and think sensibly, without that surge of emotion. But you need to be "reality-based" here..leave her be, embrace the loss, learn for this and try hard to move on. I am sorry.
Hugs, Irish
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (6 January 2006):
 Dearie, am afraid u werent at all nice to this girl. it seems she has had enough and u cant blame her really.
If u really want her back then u have to tell her, not by messages but arrange to meet her. You can take her to dinner or try getting her flowers or chocolates.
If she doesnt respond and want nothing more then am afraid u have to let her go. Learn from this, that is what we all do so that it doesnt happen to you again.
Take care now, go out and have fun with friends.
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